How to Get Pregnant Naturally

Infertility is a rising problem in today’s society. I tried to find accurate info on how much is spent annually on infertility treatments, and I kept getting results for ways to finance infertility treatment. The saddest part is that in many cases, the body can reverse infertility if given the right resources. Infertility, like any disease, is simply a sign that something is not right inside the body and must be fixed.

I have worked with a lot of women on this issue, and have seen very few health related problems that cause such pain and anxiety as wanting to have a child and not being able to. The good news is, that all the women who I have worked with who have changed diet and lifestyle factors have eventually conceived. Yes, all of them…. ages 21 to 45. That is a 100% success rate in people I’ve worked with personally, and last I saw, the success rate for invitro fertilization was just over 20%. Also, did I mention that changing diet/lifestyle costs about $20,000 less than invitro?

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Infertility is often a complex problem with a simple solution. There are so many confounding factors that can cause or contribute to infertility, which is why conventional treatment is rarely as effective… it simply can’t address all the possible causes. Fertility drugs and artificial hormones of any kind, including birth control, can make underlying problems even worse and make future fertility more difficult. (this is sad, because hormonal birth control is often prescribed for various hormonal imbalances and problems)

What Causes Infertility?

Infertility can be caused by a huge number of factors: hormone imbalance, Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome, Endometriosis, Anovulatory Cycles, physical blockage, inadequate hormone production, short luteal phase, lack of lutenizing hormone, high levels or prolactin,  and many others.

Poor nutrition often plays a major role, as does exposure to toxins. Age plays less of a role before menopause than was originally thought. While there are many wonderful naturally minded fertility specialists out there, in many cases it is not possible for them to test for and address any of these possible underlying issues. Extreme fertility treatments do work for some, but can be very emotionally and physically exhausting, not to mention very expensive. Given the choice, every woman I have worked with would always prefer to conceive naturally, with just her husband in the room!

The great news is that dietary and lifestyle changes can make a tremendous difference in fertility, and often help with other issues like excess weight, lack of energy, blood sugar problems, skin issues and insomnia in the process.

How to Reverse Infertility

This is the specific system I use when working with women on fertility, but it is also very useful for helping with PMS, cramping, fatigue, heavy periods and other hormone related problems. It is designed to address all issues that can contribute, and short of a physical inability to conceive, it will work.

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Step 1: Nutrition

This is by far the most important step. Most of us these days are undernourished, despite being overweight. The body simply will not allow conception to occur or a pregnancy to continue if it doesn’t have the basic foundation it needs to sustain a pregnancy. Many women turn to a low-fat, high fiber diet in an attempt to increase health and lose weight. Weight loss has been shown to increase fertility, but losing weight in this way is rarely effective for increasing fertility because it deprives the body of the necessary proteins and fats necessary for hormone production.

To optimize fertility through nutrition:

  • Remove grains, processed foods, sugars and starches from the diet. Obtain necessary carbohydrates from vegetables, some fruits and starchy sources like sweet potatoes and squash.
  • Increase healthy fats in the diet especially from sources like coconuts, coconut oil, olives and olive oil, butter, grass-fed meats, eggs, avocado and nuts.
  • Get enough protein especially from grass fed meats, eggs, and nuts.
  • Eat a lot of vegetables, especially green leafy varieties like lettuce, spinach, broccoli, cauliflower, kale, collard, chard, cabbage, Brussels sprouts and similar veggies.
  • Avoid processed dairy and if you eat dairy, eat raw, organic dairy from sources like butter, ghee and heavy cream.
  • Drink enough water- your urine should be very lightly colored. For most women, this is around 4 quarts a day.
  • Get insulin levels under control- even if you don’t have Type II diabetes, a high carbohydrate diet often goes hand-in-hand with some level of insulin resistance. Optimizing dietary factors with the above methods will help make your body more sensitive to insulin, which will help production of other hormones and proper function of the body.

For some women, these steps alone will optimize fertility and allow conception. It is very important to continue these things once pregnant, and not stop giving yourself proper nutrition, which is even more vital for the growth of an unborn child. Of course, pregnancy is not a license to revert to a bad diet! The biggest dietary factor that often contributes to infertility is lack of enough essential fats and proteins in the diet. Your body can’t make the hormones it needs without proteins and fats, and often this factor alone can prevent conception.

 

Step 2: Lifestyle Factors

Any doctor, or even a Google search should reveal that habits like smoking, drug use, and high caffeine intake can severely impair fertility. There are many other lifestyle factors that contribute as well:

  • Lack of sleep
  • exposure to toxins
  • lack of exercise or too much exercise
  • high stress levels
  • certain medications or supplements

Most lifestyle factors are also easy to fix with a little effort. The most common lifestyle factors that can increase fertility are:

  • Getting enough sleep- Sleep plays a vital role in production of many hormones. Studies have shown that women with low melatonin and serotonin levels have a shorter luteal pahse (time between ovulation and menstruation) and consequently have a lower chance of conceiving. Lack of sleep also impairs the body’s ability to properly regulate adrenaline, cortisol and insulin, making conception very difficult. Make sleep a priority and get enough to feel rested, not just awake. This may mean taking a nap during the day or going to bed a few hours earlier. A completely dark sleep environment may also help melatonin levels and sleep.
  • Minimize exposure to toxins- this should be a book in itself, but most women notice improvement from limiting exposure to household chemicals, plastic water bottles and conventional cosmetic and beauty products. (I’ll cover this later in a more detailed post.)
  • Get the right amount of exercise- Getting adequate exercise is important for fertility, but too much can have the opposite effect. Most women do well with several hours of recreational activity a week (walking, fun sports, or swimming) and a few weight training sessions. Too much moderate/intensive exercise will keep the body from ovulation if done regularly. While weight loss can greatly help fertility, having too little body fat (below 15-18%) can make the body go into an anovulatory state.
  • Limit Stress- Easier said than done, especially for anyone who is going through the emotions of fertility difficulties. You’ve probably been told that if you can relax, you will get pregnant. While this is certainly not true for  everyone, reducing stress is a good idea. Often, the ideas above will help with many of the physical causes of stress, leaving you more time to (hopefully) relax.
  • Check with your doctor to see if any medications you are taking could impair fertility. Steroids and antidepressants have been known to do so, as well as any other hormone containing or affecting medications.

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Step 3: Supplements

While diet and lifestyle alone often reverse infertility, some women notice better or faster results with the aid of natural supplements and herbs. The single most important supplement that I’ve seen help women increase fertility, is Fermented Cod Liver Oil, which is also excellent for a developing baby and a healthy pregnancy. Personally, I take 8+ capsules a day during pre-conception, pregnancy and nursing to make sure baby and I are both getting the nutrients needed. The beneficial fats in Fermented Cod Liver Oil and the high Omega-3 content can help reduce inflammation and boost proper hormone production.

I’ve seen women take the following herbs with good success:

  • Red Raspberry Leaf- A well know fertility herb that is also good during pregnancy. It has a high nutrient profile and is especially high in calcium and is a uterine tonic. It is available in capsule form, but makes an excellent hot or cold tea.
  • Nettle Leaf- Has a very high mineral content. It contains lots of chlorophyll and is nourishing to the adrenals and kidneys. It helps reduce stress and is a powerful uterine tonic. Once pregnant, it is great for getting enough nutrients during pregnancy and has a high vitamin K content to prevent hemorrhage. I add nettle leaf to a tea that I drink before and during pregnancy.
  • Dandelion- Contains vitamins A and C as well as trace minerals. The root is beneficial to the liver and the leaf is mildly diuretic. Can help cleanse the body and remove toxins.
  • Alfalfa- Has vitamins A, D, E and K and 8 digestive enzymes. Contains trace minerals and vitamin K and is often added to commercial vitamins because of its high vitamin profile.
  • Red Clover- Has a very high vitamin content and contains almost every trace mineral. It has been known to help balance hormones and restore fertility.
  • Maca- A hormone balancing herb that is known throughout the world for its fertility and vitality promoting properties. Good for both men and women to increase fertility, though women should only take between menses and ovulation and discontinue to make sure it is not taken during pregnancy. It is a very potent herb that often has very noticeable effects on fertility. It comes in powder form or capsule form.
  • Vitex/Chaste Tree Berry- Nourishes the pituitary gland and helps lengthen the luteal phase. It lowers prolactin and raises progesterone. For some women, this alone will increase fertility.
  • Natural Progesterone Cream- Infertility struggles can often be linked to specific hormone imbalances. Especially for those with short cycles or short second phase of their cycle (ovulation through start of menses), progesterone can be the issue. I’ve seen people add only natural progesterone cream and conceive and carry a healthy pregnancy within a month or two. If you do use progesterone cream, do you own research, make sure you have a good brand that is soy-free and only use for the second half of your cycle (ovulation through menses). Some sources, including a midwife and a doctor I trust, suggest continuing the progesterone cream through the first three months of pregnancy and then tapering off to make sure the body has adequate progesterone to continue the pregnancy until the placenta takes over production in the second trimester. Do your research on this as well.

IMPORTANT: Do not take any of these herbs in combination with fertility drugs, hormone treatments or hormonal birth control! As with any herbs, supplements, or medication, consult a doctor or health care professional about your specific case and do your own research!

Vitamins that promote fertility:

  • Vitamin D- Vitamin D deficiency is very common in America, especially during the winter, and can be very detrimental to overall health. Recent studies link inadequate vitamin D with infertility and miscarriage. Have your levels checked to find out how much you need.
  • Vitamin C- A potent antioxidant, vitamin C is good for both male and female infertility. Aim for at least 2,000 mg a day pre-conception.
  • Folic Acid- Folic acid is well known as a necessary vitamin in early pregnancy to prevent complications, but it is most beneficial when taken for several month before the pregnancy as well as during. It helps cell division and promotes ovulation. Some natural doctors recommend taking up to 5,000 micrograms a day and women hoping to get pregnant should take at least 2,000 micrograms a day.
  • Zinc- Very important for cell division including sperm production and ovulation. Best when taken in combination with b-vitamins.
  • Selenium- Helps protect the body from free radicals and protects sperm and egg. Known to help cell division and might prevent miscarriage.
  • B-Vitamins- Deficiency of b-vitamins is common in anyone who consumes large amounts of processed foods, grains or sugars. Optimizing b vitamin levels can increase lutenizing hormone and follicle stimulating hormone to improve fertility.

For couples, struggles with infertility can be agonizing. Proper diet and nutrition can greatly aid the body in conceiving and carrying a healthy baby, and are beneficial in overall health. While sometimes medical treatment is necessary, couples should at least consider dietary changes first to support the body. The above system is also helpful for women struggling with PMS, PCOS, endometriosis, heavy periods or other hormonal problems.

Have you struggled with infertility? Do you get pregnant just by washing your laundry with your husband’s? Please tell me about it below, and share how you have overcome infertility or what you still struggle with. 

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  • K

    Thanks for this post. We’ve started doing lots of these things already, but I didn’t realize that maca was good for hormonal imbalances. Both my husband and I have issues with this (no wonder we can’t get pregnant!) so I’ve been trying to research natural ways to get hormones back in balance. Do you know of a good source for maca?

  • how to get pregnant

    You CAN get pregnant naturally regardless of how long you have been trying without success! There is a safe and natural method.

  • http://applestococonuts.blogspot.com/ Emily

    Thanks for posting! I am set to get married in about a year, and we both want children. However, last year I got diagnosed with type 1 diabetes, so now I’m really fearful about getting pregnant, or not being able to. I already follow the nutritional guidelines, and no one on this earth could make me forgo my 8-10 hours of sleep! So I feel a bit better about my chances now, even if the attempts for pregnancy are still a long way off. 

  • http://www.lovelifeandknittingblogspot.com Emma

    I had lots of problems getting pregnant, plenty of treatment that didn’t work and then all of a sudden a natural pregnancy (and I am now blessed with a three year old daughter) – but I haven’t fallen pregnant since. 6 months ago I found out that the low calorie carbs I was eating were pointless for health and well-being but I am now reading more and more that suggests 25 years of being vegetarian (no meat or fish) might have contributed to my sub-fertility. I might miss out on a second baby, as I am radically changing my diet at 42, but it is a comfort to me to understand why we might have had so many problems.

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  • Joshua24 15

    What are some good herbs to promote fertility in men?

  • Katie

    My husband is a Chiropractor and he seen couples come in that have tried everything and after a few weeks to a few months under care-they all got pregnant.  Your body is amazing and can do amazing things when there is no interference.

  • Kirsten

    I just discovered your blog today. It’s filled with so much valuable information! My husband and I just recently starting trying for our first baby. I’m 33 and he’s 40, and we are both considerably overweight. On top of that, I have some feminine health related challenges (fibroids, short cycles…). I’ve been on and off the primal lifestyle for a couple months, but your article has really given me the motivation to go at it 100%, for my own health and the health of our future child/children. Thank you!

  • Booboo

    Well, this is a great site. But, I have to say, you can’t possibly say 100 percent success rate with fertility.  It borders on absurd, respectfully.  There is no possible way that women aged 40-45 will all get pregnant by following these recommendations.  It’s just not possible.  Sorry.

  • http://wellnessmama.com Wellness Mama

    I don’t claim that it would work for every single person who ever tries it, rather just that with the clients I have worked with in the past, it has. And, I’ve had several in that age range who have gotten pregnant.

  • http://www.healthydivaeats.com/ Katie

    Thank you for this post! I am struggling right now with getting a period, and I truly believe it is from  not getting enough healthy fats in my diet!

  • Dcrunningmamablog

    I’m sorry, but I COMPLETELY disagree with this post. I changed EVERYTHING in my life: took supplements, gained weight (so that I was a healthy 19-20% body fat), stopped running, changed my diet and did not get pregnant naturally (and, yes, I was having sex when ovulating).  It took 4 rounds of IVF to conceive my 2nd child at the ripe old age of 32 (I started trying for #2 at 31; also had problems conceiving #1 at 28/29).  I was diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve meaning that I had the ovaries of someone 15 years older.  This post is VERY misleading and can cause women that have REAL infertility issues to waste precious time trying to “fix” their fertility problems homeopathically.  Blog posts like this only alienate healthy women like me and make us feel guilty for not being healthier.  Sometimes there are other factors at play that impact our fertility.  Changing our diet and taking supplements does not cure everything.

  • http://wellnessmama.com Wellness Mama

    I’m sorry for all your difficulty, and congrats on your two children! I agree with you that diet and supplements are not the only thing that has to change for some people, but they are, at least, a very important start and an aspect that is not always addressed by fertility specialists. Even if women need more fertility help, these steps will help improve their chances with fertility aids. That being said, I have seen a lot of women have drastic improvements from diet and supplements alone. I’m sorry that you felt alienated. Thanks for reading and best of luck in the future!

  • gardengrrrl

    Don’t forget the other half of the equation: the men!  I feel that it really helped us when I started feeding my hubby more red meat, oysters, and liverwurst (and slipping brewer’s yeast into salad dressing)…for Vitamins A, D, and especially ZINC.  On top of a WAPF based diet, seemed to work for us!

  • Laura Pulliam1

    What do you suggest for men as far as supplements?  Also, what is your opinion of the over the counter fertility vitamins such as ProCreation or Michael’s Reproductive Factors?  By the way..Your website has changed me and my husband’s life!  I can’t imagaine eating any other way now.   We are desperately trying to get pregnant with no luck and are about to go see specialists.  I am fearful of the process being that I would prefer to get pregnant naturally.  We are at the point that we don’t know what else to do.  I wish we could be your patients! =)  Any advice on the men’s supplements and  OTC vitamins would be great.  Thanks for all you do.

  • http://wellnessmama.com Wellness Mama

    Zinc and selenium are the big ones for the guys… Eating a few brazil nuts a day will be enough selenium, but the zinc is a little tougher to get from food and should often be supplemented. A good quality prenatal is good, but I’d say that magnesium, probiotics, and fermented cod liver oil are more important (the brands I take are in my “store” tab). I’d also make sure you are both getting liver, seafood and high quality fats in your diet. Those would all be higher priorities than a prenatal, but if you’re already doing that, a prenatal would be good too :-) Best of luck!

  • Nwrigs19

    Do you take all those natural herbs at the same time or just certain ones?  Which ones would work best for fertility? 

  • http://wellnessmama.com Wellness Mama

    It would depend on how aggressively I was trying to reverse the infertility. They could be taken together but the progesterone cream, red raspberry and Maca together are the most potent.

  • Zombie Katzchen

    I’m one of the “got pregnant by washing my clothes with my husband’s.”  We tried for only 1 month, after charting my cycles for 16 months and using FAM with a diaphragm during my fertile week.  I had been worried that between hypothyroidism and previously being overweight would hinder my fertility, but clearly I had gotten my health under control!

  • http://wellnessmama.com Wellness Mama

    haha… I’m the same way… washing clothes, now I know what’s causing it :-)

  • Meri Frazier

    Really enjoyed this article. My husband and I have been ting to conceive for 2 years. My daughter who’s going on 6 was conceived while on BC, but now that I’m trying to conceive I’ve been having complications. I’ve done the charting, fertility monitors, vitamins, etc. I vowed a few days ago to take care of my self more by having massages and mediate to help relax. I know weigh can be an issue with TTC, my issue is that I’m underweight. I’m 30 going on 31, 5’3, and I weigh under 100lbs. What do you recommend to help increase my weigh or do you feel that my weight is a major factor?

  • Meri Frazier

    Where can you find most of these herbs? Also, the progesterone cream wasn’t mention above, could you please speak more on that? Thanks

  • Meri Frazier

    By the way, I just order the maca, raspberry leaf, and the progesterone cream online. What are your recommendations for using the cream and how to apply it?

  • http://wellnessmama.com Wellness Mama

    There should be instructions on the package, but you rub on fatty areas of the body (buttocks, legs, stomach) 1-2 times a day, using only a small dime size amount and only for the second half of your cycle (after ovulation until menses).

  • Carrie

    Thank you so much for your wonderful post.  I agree that nutrition and sleep can definitely play a vital role in fertility.  I am wondering if you have ever heard of NaProTECHNOLOGY?  It stands for Natural Reproductive Technology.  It’s a medical application to a fertility charting system called the Creighton Method.  It was through the help of the charting and MD who is trained in NaPro that we were finally able to concieve.  We use all bio-identical hormones and some of the same supplements you mentioned and a few others.  You can find out more at http://www.naprotechnology.com.

  • Christy

    We have had fertility problems over the years.  I had been diagnosed with PCOS and told I would never conceive on my own.  Well I had 2 pregnancies without drugs to get them.  Then I had recurring problems with large cysts on one ovary and ended up having to have that ovary removed and told that it would be near impossible for me to get pregnant on my own now with my past history and now only 1 ovary.  Well, I went on to have 2 more pregnancies.  Now my children are pretty well spaced, and not of  my intentions.  I suffered a late miscarriage last summer and was determined for it not to be another 2 to 4 years before I was pregnant again.  I recently found out I was pregnant and this what I was taking and doing that month…
    Red Raspberry Leaf capsules
    Mega B complex
    Maca capsules (started at 800mg/day on cycle day 5 and increased it gradually up to 3000mg just before ovulation and then gradually decreased) make sure you get certified organic; I found mine on Amazon and through a natural health store.  You would also want to know when you ovulate in your cycle… I happen to ovulate between days 18 and 20 which is why I waited to start the maca until day 5.  If you ovulate on CD 14, you might want to start early.
    Chiropractic care… I had been in a serious accident the month before and started this at the beginning of my cycle as part of my therapy.  This was the one thing that had been different from the previous 3 cycles.

    I hope this might help someone. 

  • Kf

    Have to be careful with what kind of Vitamin C you’re taking. Pills that have rose hips and bioflavinoids will assist with fertility, but if those ingredients are missing the opposite effect might be seen. 

  • http://wellnessmama.com Wellness Mama

    I am familiar with them. I’m actually a certified NFP teacher… it’s so good to see things like NaPro gaining traction.

  • http://wellnessmama.com Wellness Mama

    Congrats! That’s wonderful!

  • Maddie

    Hello, I am curious what the results of doing this would be ”
    Do not take any of these herbs in combination with fertility drugs, hormone treatments or hormonal birth control! ”. Is there a bad reaction? What is the issue of taking these supplements while using the pill or any other hormonal treatment? 

  • http://wellnessmama.com Wellness Mama

    These herbs are very powerful in their own right. The can impact hormones, and taking them with other drugs that also impact hormones can lead to dangerous effects. If you are going to attempt to take any of these while on hormone treatment of any kind, I’d definitely suggest talking to your doctor and finding a natural doctor and herbalist in your area to consult too.

  • maria

    NaPro=Great. Probably a lot of NaPro trained doctors=great…but at all costs avoid going to the founder, Dr. Hilgers for treatment. Along with numerous other women who trusted him, I’m still living with the emotional scars from treatment with him…and still no babies. My intention is NOT to give him a bad name, but I definitely want to help other women avoid the pain and suffering he causes.

  • http://wellnessmama.com Wellness Mama

    Wow… good to know and I’m so sorry for your suffering… if you want, feel free to email me and I’ll see if I have any resources that can help :-)

  • Catherine

    I have a question:. I have been ‘mostly paleo’ for a year and a half now. I do occasionally fall of the bandwagon completely though. This post is inspiring me to REALLY commit! I have been officially trying to conceive since last December. I was charting all my CM, and that all looked good. The problem was that there was no thermal shift. I confirmed with my midwife and she said that probably meant I wasn’t ovulating. 1) will the above supplements help fix that problem? 2) a lady at the natural food store suggested I take this tincture: Quantum: female fertility formula which has in it: false unicorn, wild yam, vitex, wild american ginseng, maca, astragalus, rhodiola rosea, and dong quai. + evening primrose oil

    your thoughts? If the supplements you mentioned help with someone who isn’t ovulating, is my tincture sufficient, or would I be better just taking red raspberry leaf tea and maca.

    I will be switching from my SFH fish oil in favor of the fermented CLO/butter oil soon. I crossfit between 2-5x weekly. I am overweight, but my a1c is 5.3% (non diabetic)

  • http://wellnessmama.com Wellness Mama

    The herbs above should help with ovulation, but depending on how long your luteal phase is, I’d also use natural progesterone cream for the second half of each menstrual cycle (when ovulation should occur through start of menses) to help get progesterone levels up. Low progesterone is the most common cause of not ovulating, and the natural cream is usually an easy solution. Personally, I’ve also used the natural cream in early pregnancy too to guard against miscarriage until about three months when he placenta takes over progesterone production.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=545355926 Catherine Peisher Knight

    so is it better to use the herbs individually or is the blended tincture I bought ok? (the FCLO/butter oil and progesterone cream are on their way!)

  • http://wellnessmama.com Wellness Mama

    The blend should be fine, but I’d discontinue as soon as you find out you are pregnant.

  • Callie

    My husband and I have been TTC for 13 months. We did One cycle in June of clomid and IUI # 1 (BFN)
    Then in July/august we did IVF/ICSI #1 (BFN)
    We had 11 embryos, we transferred two and hoped to freeze the rest. Then we got the call that none of the 9 embryos made it to freeze.
    So now we are tryin to do all that we can to make out next IVF cycle as successful as we can. Because of money it will probably be our last.
    So I am trying to make sure my husband and myself are on the proper fertility supplements. Any advice is great. Right now DH is taking Coast Male Reproductive Fertility Supplement. I’m just taking a prenatal vitamin + dha.

  • http://wellnessmama.com Wellness Mama

    I’ve never done IVF, so that is new territory for me, but if it were me, I’d use natural progesterone cream (and continue through first 3 months of pregnancy), about 2 teaspoons of fermented cod liver oil a day, and Maca up for both up until the implantation date… (but stop then!!)

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=545355926 Catherine Peisher Knight

    I’m sorry to have to ask so many questions. I decided to start buying the various components separately as independent reading said that some of the ingredients should be mixed. However, my reading has been giving conflicting advice: some say maca should be taken all month long, you say the first half. some say red raspberry leaf should not be taken when pregnant so its better only have if the first half of the cycle. Same with evening primrose oil. Is there a definitive guide somewhere?

  • http://wellnessmama.com Wellness Mama

    Unfortunately, most of those fall into the category of not being adequately tested in pregnancy, so while they may be safe, they can’t be recommended. For Maca, it can me taken all month long, it just shouldn’t be taken during pregnancy, which is why if you’re actively TTC, I typically suggest just taking in the first half. Personally, I drink Red Raspberry leaf tea throughout pregnancy, and my midwife has said this is fine, but some people are more comfortable only doing that in the later half of pregnancy or not at all. I personally don’t use EPO while pregnant, but some people do. Unfortunately, I don’t think there is a “definitive” guide anywhere so I’d just suggest doing your own research and finding a solution you are comfortable with… Good luck!

  • Brynn

    My husband and I have been TTC for 3 years. We have been through all of the testing, and were diagnosed with unexplained infertility. We have worked to reduce stress, eat very healthy with lots of protein, fruits, and vegetables, and I have been on a regimen of Vitamin C, Vitamin B4, Prenatal, zinc. We did a round of IUI, but were not able to do another due to finances. I had a HTC, everything was clear, my husband had a sperm test, the doctor commented on how good of a sample he gave. I have had ultrasounds, and have never had an abnormal annual visit. We have charted, not charted, and we even went to visit a Indian Healer. I have been to the chiropractor, done yoga, tried meditation and daily affirmations. I feel like life is passing my by, and just about once a month I have a friend announcing that they are pregnant. I want nothing more than to be a mom. We rescued a dog a few months ago, which does help give me something to cuddle with, but I still want to be a mom. I already follow your diet, and would like to try out some of the vitamins and supplements that you have suggested. I was thinking I would start with the Fermented Cod Liver Oil, Red Clover and Vitamin D. Would you suggest anything else, or in addition to this? Your help is greatly appreciated.

  • http://wellnessmama.com Wellness Mama

    Those would be a great first step. How long is your cycle usually? If it were me, I’d probably also add Maca (discontinue when you find out you are expecting) and natural progesterone cream during the second half of your cycle only (ovulation until start of your period). Keep us updated and I’m praying you get to hold a baby soon! *hugs*

  • Star

    This is exactly the kind of information I’ve been looking for! My husband and i have been trying to conceive for six months (not very long, I know, but for us it seems like an eternity!) i heard about Soy Isoflavens and after doing more research I decided not to go that route due to the potential side effects. As someone who leads a healthy life style this is perfect for us! I have a list of the herbs I would like to try. Any recommendations?

  • http://wellnessmama.com Wellness Mama

    The ones that seem to have the most immediate benefit are Maca, Red Clover and Natural Progesterone Cream (on skin, second half of cycle)… And make sure you are eating lots of healthy fats like coconut oil, butter, grassfed meat, etc to support hormone production…

  • Brynn

    Thanks for the suggestions! My cycle is on average 29 days and has always been very regular and on-time. I will go to the health food store and buy the Maca, and Progesterone Cream. I will keep you posted, thank you again!

  • Alaina

    As a child I had pretty severe asthma, as a result I was put on steroid after steroid after steroid until I turned 18 and told the doctors/ my parents no more. I have struggled with my weight since then, I haven’t been under 200 lbs since I was 11 years old. I lost a little weight before I was married due to phentermine but went off and doubled back what I had lost. Now I did see a doctor to lose the 37lbs I have lost so far but became uncomfortable when he wanted to hyper excelerate my thyroid (which is perfectly normal). I am now doing it on my own, 3lbs so far without all that medication, 75 to go yet but I will try changing my diet as suggested above. My husband and I have been together 10 years and only used birth control once for a three months (it made me a bear to live with). We have never in that time been able to get pregnant in any way.I was diagnosed with PCOS and then undiagnosed because they couldn’t see any cyst on the ultra sound. I don’t ovulate but I do have a cycle almost every month. My husbands sperm count is great. We did do a year worth of fertility treatments but they never took. We could not afford to keep going. We gave up the dream of having children. Lucky for us though, we were blessed with our sweet little girl almost three years ago through private adoption. I would love to make her a big sister, she is an amazing little human being and I am blessed every day because of her. Truth be told I am terrified to open my heart up again it almost destroyed me last time (thankfully I have my sweet girl to remind me that even if we are not blessed with more, we are truly blessed with her).

  • M

    Thanks for this article! It has been really helpful! My husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for the past 6 months. I was on the pill for about 1 1/2 of our marriage. I have been tracking my temperatures thru NFP and it has been helpful to see when I ovulate. After a few months of tracking temperatures, I figured I out I ovulate around day 18. In July, I found out I was pregnant thru tracking my temperatures(remained high for 18 days). I took a pregnancy test a few times some came up negative and only 1 came thru being faintly positive. So, I missed my period by 8 days or so then I noticed my temperatures starting to fall after 18 days of high temperatures and I knew that wasn’t a good sign. I started my “period” the next day and I knew I had an early miscarriage. I have been telling my OBGYN that I’d like to get my hormones checked to make sure everything is okay after being on the pill. She keeps telling me it takes couples normally a year to get pregnant after being on the pill. I have read your article and I am planning to try taking Maca. I’ve thought about taking the natural progesterone cream but I’m afraid that I don’t need it. What do you suggest?

  • M

    What Maca product did you buy on Amazon? trying to find which one is best?

  • http://wellnessmama.com Wellness Mama

    How long is your luteal phase? From people I’ve worked with, many benefit immensely from progesterone, especially after a miscarriage, which can be a sign of low progesterone. *Hugs* Hope things work out for you soon!

  • Sabaya :)

    Hi i have a question, im 28 with endometriosis. Do you think this system and herbs will work to help me conceive

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=545355926 Catherine Peisher Knight

    I just thought I would share that after only five weeks of using FCLO/high vitamin butter oil daily, maca (1st half of cycle) Vitex, evening primrose oil (first half of cycle) it looks like I ovulated last week for the first time since I began charting! My temperature dropped today (not below the coverline my app drew) so I may not have actually conceived. But I feel confident in my body’s ability to heal itself and conceive . If I didn’t, that just gives me more time to lean out some more, and further prepare for pregnancy. Thank You!

  • http://wellnessmama.com Wellness Mama

    Each person is different on what will or won’t help, but I have seen this same protocol help several people I know who had endometriosis.

  • http://wellnessmama.com Wellness Mama

    That’s wonderful! So happy for you and can’t wait to hear when you have a little on on the way!

  • http://www.facebook.com/angelaparish09 Angela Parish

    I have blocked tubes a d conceived my son through ivf. I’dove to conceive the next baby naturally. Any additional advice specific to blocked tubes?

  • April

    I started taking Vit D, folic acid, prenatal vitamins and the sperm friendly lubricant Pre-Seed along w an OPK kit and thankfully got pregnant on our first round. Good luck to everyone.

  • Sabaya :)

    Hi, its me again, so over the weekend i went and purchased maca, FCLO, chaste berry extract, red raspberry leaf, evening primrose oil, and the progesterone cream. What dosage should i start with and when in my cycle should i start taking these supplements.My cycle is every 28 days and it started today. Sorry if thats T.m.i. :)

  • http://wellnessmama.com Wellness Mama

    You can take all but the progesterone cream during your who cycle and I use progesterone cream for the second half of a cycle (ovulation until period starts). Start with the dosage on the bottles you got and then work up in your next cycle after you see how your body responds. Good luck!

  • Lo Light

    That is amazing! It gives me hope! I have been diagnosed with PCOS and have not been able to conceive for eight years. Even after one year of fertility treatment. I am now looking for natural resources in hopes that they work!

  • Danielle

    I recently had a positive home pregnancy test, but have been spotting for ten days. Which supplements would help?

  • http://wellnessmama.com Wellness Mama

    If it were me, I’d check with a doctor to make sure my progesterone levels were good, and also start taking folate, probiotics and fermented cod liver oil. Congrats and best wishes for your pregnancy!

  • http://profile.yahoo.com/RFWLVZ7VYLRC6GCCHURWQ7YU2M Dr opingo

    I am 37 years old, just found out i am pregnant. I have three
    wonderful boys, with one man we were together 13 years but split when my
    youngest was 7 months old. I am now living with a man and been together
    for three years. The thing is i am scared about it having another
    child, and being the only parent to care for it. I love the man i am
    with, but he works long hours and is gone for weeks at a time. What am i
    to do raise this child alone, one day i was browsing on the internet i
    saw DR SAMBOL, drsamblspelltemple@gmail.com, testimony saying that he
    help people when do can’t get pregnant, and people that don’t have any
    child that are looking for i quickly took the his email and contact him
    for help after doing what he ask me to do thing change and that day i
    got my self back again and i was having enough power and every thing
    went through. So i contact me friend that live in NYC she has be married
    for 12 years but no child, to my best surprise my friend that was
    childless for the past 12 years was pregnant oh my God thank you DR
    SAMBOL drsambolspelltemple@gmail.com for the kindness.

  • http://www.facebook.com/melodys.muze Moirai Muze

    My husband and I have been trying to conceive for over two years… After the first 6vmonths to a year I was diagnosed with a bicornuate uterus and blocked or incomplete left Fallopian tube, and also polycystic ovaries. I use to be a smoker, quit smoking, recently changing my diet completely for prevention of the insulin resistance often associated… I’m beginning a three week cleanse to eliminate toxins. My doctor has not been extremely helpful besides suggesting metformin and clomid which I have refused to take up to this point.. I came across this web site and wanted to know what, if anything you thought could help or if the medications he suggested are good.. Also, the above nutrients and supplements, how many can be taken together? I was thinking of taking the progesterone cream but a lot of the other supplements look as if they would be good for all over health as well but am scared to mix too many together. Thank you for your time and the information

  • http://wellnessmama.com Wellness Mama

    If it were me, I’d do progesterone cream, Maca, Red Raspberry and Fermented Cod liver oil. I also take magnesium daily and consume lots of coconut oil. I continue the magnesium, fermented cod liver oil and and coconut oil during pregnancy but stop the macs and red raspberry at that point.

  • http://www.facebook.com/melodys.muze Moirai Muze

    Thanks for the advice, it’s greatly appreciated… I’m new to taking supplements and am already on a couple and was also told to take pharmaceutical grade fish oil to regulate insulin levels.. Can most or all supplements be taken together in conjunction with the ones you’ve suggested?

  • Lizzy

    A friend sent me to your site it looks awesome! My husband and I have been TTC for over 3 years now. I am only 25, but I have been starting to get concerned. We just started the testing process, so we are still waiting on the results of my thyroid and his sperm count. I do have cyclical cysts on my right ovary, but the doctors said it shouldn’t affect us getting pregnant. I eat pretty well (except my coffee intake, which I will try to lower), take my vitamins (multi, folic acid, and C), and exercise regularly. It is nice to see I am on the right track, but maybe I’ll add in some supplements, reduce coffee, and reduce my grain intake. I started testing my LH and found that I can ovulate anywhere between Day 16 and Day 21 with a luteal phase of 14 days. It’s frustrating every time another one of my friends gets pregnant or pregnant for the 2nd time (My husband and I were the first of our friends to get married). They are all fertile Mertile’s getting pregnant from holding hands or something! But I am trying to trust that the Lord has a plan and when I have kids (natural or adopted) it will all be worth it. THANKS FOR THE HELP!

  • http://www.facebook.com/skye.clark07 Skye Clark

    Hi Maria, I am curious as to why you don’t suggest Dr. Hilgers. I recently moved to Nebraska and a friend here suggests him as he helped her conceive her two children. My husband and I have been trying for just over 3 years with two miscarriages and a recent diagnosis of “unexplained infertility.” I am pretty close to deciding to take my friend’s advice and making an appointment in Omaha, but it sounds like from what you say that I should probably stay away?

  • Viria

    I stated having problem with my husband when I found I was pregnant with my third child in April. I was torn, because I found out in the Fall of last year, my husband is having an affair, and the other woman is pregnant, due this summer. I was devasted, shocked and saddened. He promised he would stop seeing her and devote his life to me and our kids. Well it didn’t happen, and I didn’t think it was fair to bring another child into such an unstable environment. It was the hardest thing I ever had to do, but I think I made the right decision for me and my kids because i met a woman who do spell with email priestessifaa@yahoo.com, she assured me of having my husband back in full and he would stop seeing the other woman, I could not bear the pain i allowed her to work for me and in 2days after she has done the spell, the other lady was then history it was shocking any way, she had miscarriage and hence forth never had anything to do with my husband,. This is something I will carry in my heart forever and be thankful to priestess Ifaa for bringing happiness back to my family!!!

  • ktweety

    What did he have them do

  • http://www.facebook.com/joann.charman Joann Charman

    I agree with this post, How can you say that you have 100 percent success rate compared to 20 percent with IVF ?

    Where I do agree that a change in life style COULD help some people to conceive

    you CANNOT compare your self to an IVF clinic treating people with medical issues that no matter what vitamin or mineral they take they will not conceive naturally

  • http://wellnessmama.com Wellness Mama

    I’m just saying that in couples I’ve personally worked with, they have all conceived after addressing issues naturally. I’m certainly not claiming to be able to help with physical issues that actually make conception impossible, but I haven’t worked with any couples with these issues.

  • http://www.facebook.com/lyndsaywithey Lyndsay Rae Withey

    I just started on this cycle (I am currently cycle day 13) and I have been charting bbt and taking Vitex twice a day and 2 red clover a day. It looks like I just ovulated on day 10. I am really confused by this because before this cycle I was having 34 day cycles. I am still new to tracking and thinking about my cycles. Does this mean that I should expect my cycle to start on Day 24? Also should I go ahead and start the progesterone cream now?

  • elana

    I have 5 fibroids,one is 9cm. I’m getting ready to take Lupron to help decrease the size. Will taking the above supplements help me or would you recommend something else? Thanks

  • fwine0609@gmail.com

    I have just started taking maca and it works wonders with me and my husband I found it at the vitamin shoppe or you can get it at GNC or online im using that to help with fertility along with royal jelly and Bee propolis good luck

  • Chelsea April White

    Thanks for the post! I’m a type 1 diabetic who recently lost are first child when i was 5mths pregnant due to a blood clotting disorder. After being diagnosed with yet another thing my husband I started making some changes it our life. We have always been health minded people (mostly vegan) but we started getting rid of all the toxins in our life (thanks again for all the recipes). After reading this I want to get the getting pregnant and pregnancy thing as natural as I can. Of course I know the insulin is a most but my a1c has not been over 6 it 2 years. So Diabetes under control CHECK ;) ! I’m also on low aspirin for the blood clotting and prenatal and vitamin D the dr prescribed. They also said I will need to put on heparin when I become pregnant. So I was wondering what would you suggests I take instead or to add to what I’m taking. I noticed that some of the supplements decrease bleeding which would no be good in my case. I feel like a hopeless case :(

  • Chelsea April White

    Oh also I had long cycles before the pregnancy about 45-50 days, but the last few mths after appear to be normal, but I’m not sure if that will change and I was allergic to the insulin resistance they put me on for the first pregnancy so a natural alternative would be great.

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  • Jacqui

    Thanx for a great post. I am 39 and have been trying to conceive for the past 5 years. We are at the point of IVF now and it seem that I am not producing enough eggs. My question is about the diet. I am a lacto vegetarian and I have been trying really hard to do a low carb diet without grains, but am finding impossible. As a consequence I have upped my soya intake which I know is not good for fertility. Do you have any suggestions in this regard?

  • http://wellnessmama.com Wellness Mama

    Honestly, it seems that it can be very difficult to conceive without some animal foods as many of the superfoods for pregnancy and fertility (fermented cod liver oil, liver, etc) are animal based… But soy is definitely not good for fertility!

  • Jacqui

    This seems to be the general consensus, however, I have been a lacto vegetarian since birth and am unable to consume animals. I really don’t know what else to do.

  • Jackie bell

    Hello, my husband and I have been TTC for two years now.
    We have always dreamed about having a large family (4-6 kids). As I am a BRCA1
    carrier it is essential for us to have children sooner than later as I feel
    like a ticking time bomb and detection is nearly impossible while pregnant and
    breast feeding. Me and my husband are 29
    and no luck. We have been primal for
    over a year now and very active crossfitters.
    We have seen a specialist for 8 months and just did our 6th IUI but its
    sad to say I’m not holding my breath. I
    gained weight so my body fat is at a good level. We did all the normal testing, I have no
    blockages, my hormone levels are good and apparently I have amazing ovulations
    (get tested 4 days after IUI). I do however have a very small cervix, actually
    so small it is hard to do the IUI but I grit my teeth and we get it done. My cycle is like clockwork. My husband also got tested and has a low
    sperm count and not the best mobility. That coupled with my small cervix it was
    concluded it would be hard for us to conceive naturally but IUI should be our
    answer. I am on prenatal, fish oil, and
    folic acid and CO Q10 and I eat a lot of macadamia nuts. My husband is on CO Q10, B complex, folic
    acid, multi vitamin, and vitamin C. I
    have also had surgery to remove some tubular cysts and scar tissue in my
    tubes. Still no pregnancy. Also with all the vitamins my husbands sperm
    count and mobility are not getting better. But after the sperm wash the numbers
    are where they should be. We have been very resistant to hormones because
    of the BRCA1 but I’m at the point where
    I will do anything. I am on my second
    cycle with letrozole and my husband on clomide.
    His sperm count did increase a bit but still no pregnancy. I don’t want to take hormones long term,
    really not anymore at all. I much prefer
    the natural route even though we may have to continue with IUI. What do you recommend for my husband to
    increase count and mobility. Also I feel
    like I’m in a good place health wise but I’m still not able to conceive. What
    do you recommend we add to our vitamin regimen and/or remove?

  • http://wellnessmama.com Wellness Mama

    I’m not a doc, but if it were me, this is what I’d do:
    -Both start taking a teaspoon a day of fermented cod liver oil
    -Switch to folate instead of folic acid
    -Both start taking Maca (you discontinue when pregnant) -Consider/research using natural progesterone cream for the second half of your cycle and during early pregnancy to avoid miscarriage -Keep up the supplements but add in Zinc and selenium for hubby
    -Lots and lots of healthy fats, especially coconut oil and grass fed butter -Iron rich organ meats when possible…

    The book Deep Nutrition is also excellent to read pre-pregnancy…

  • http://www.why-cant-i-get-pregnant-blog.net/ Why Can’t I Get Pregnant

    Very great article. Full of a lot of great tips and information. The breakdown of the vitamins helps a lot. Thank you

  • http://www.why-cant-i-get-pregnant-blog.net/ Why Can’t I Get Pregnant

    Hi Katie. What did they do to get pregnant?

  • http://www.why-cant-i-get-pregnant-blog.net/ Why Can’t I Get Pregnant

    Good luck lo light. I hope it works out for you

  • Tisha

    Wow this is a lot of good information. I have two children that came easily, in my young twenties but now I’m in my thirties, not so easy. My husband and I have been trying for more then 2 years. We have had a M/C and two chemicals. I’v tried so many things, but after reading this post, it gives me new things to try. I have endometriosis, this has been a long tough road.

  • Mandee

    I have two questions. The first one is I cut out all grains etc and now I am on CD 20 with no sign of ovulating. Any idea why that would happen? This happened the last time I adopted a whole foods diet as well. I have pcos but have had regular periods (abou32-35 days) since having surgery in 2009. Second question is do you recommend vitex and maca together? And at what point in the cycle do you take them? Thanks!

  • http://wellnessmama.com Wellness Mama

    I’ve taken both together during the whole cycle and stopped when pregnant… It can be normal to see cycle changes with diet changes, but make sure you are consuming enough healthy fats and calories in general…

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  • erin

    Dear Wellness Mama, I have PCOS and it seems my biggest problem with fertility is staying pregnant which more than likely is due to my low Progesterone. I am 39 now and obviously more eager than ever to have a full term pregnancy. I am going to order the above items listed. I noticed it said to Maca day 1 of cycle to ovulation date. I also ordered the Raspberry tea and Vitex. They are out of the Nettle currenlty. How do you make a tea with the raspberry leaf and nettle? (Sorry – only used tea from tea bags before – so I am not sure how much to put in, etc). I am also working with a holistic doc to try to get my progesterone up and my liver cleansed. Do you work with people as well?

  • http://wellnessmama.com Wellness Mama

    I usually use at least a cup of herb per gallon of boiling water to make the tea, or a tablespoon if making a single cup. Have you ever tried natural progesterone cream?

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  • Mandee

    Thank you! I increased my calories quite a bit and started vitex and finally ovulated. We’ll see how the next cycle goes!

  • LK

    Thank you for this information. I have a question regarding what may be the best route for my husband and I as we are vegetarians (we do eat dairy and fish), and have been trying to get pregnant for one and a half years. After a year of trying, we conceived however, lost the baby at 7 weeks. I have not become pregnant since ( I know it hasn’t been that long, only been 3 months). I currently take PNV and B-complex vitamins. My doctor recommended that I don’t attempt any other supplements/herbs but he also didn’t ask much about my lifestyle and such…We just recently eliminated most soy products from our diet (which I think we were eating more than we realized). I don’t want to change too much at once but was wondering what would be a good plan for us? Should I start taking fermented cod liver oil and maca root (during the times you recommended)? Should he start taking maca root as well? We haven’t had any fertility testing done but I was thinking that maybe our hormones (particularly mine) were a bit out of balance with all the soy products…. Your advice would be very much appreciated :) thank you.

  • erin

    Thank you for the tea ratios :) . I did purchase the progesterone cream from beeyoutiful. My chiropractor has me on ProgonB to try to help me bring my progesterone levels up. I don’t get the impression she wants me to do the cream for now. But, it has been 6 months and I do not feel like I am getting anywhere yet with just that. any thoughts on that?

  • http://wellnessmama.com Wellness Mama

    If it were me, I’d take the FCLO and macs and also eat a lot of coconut oil and grassed dairy to support hormone production…

  • disqus_xzqltiW32L

    Do you have any suggestions for men? My husband has low sperm count and motility.

  • http://wellnessmama.com Wellness Mama

    Maca, zinc and selenium are usually suggested for that…

  • erin

    Was trying to find where I read it, but cannot. Can you take Maca whole cycle or just day 1 to ovulation? (I thought I read “something” is just day 1 to ovulation – but cannot find it). I am now on progesterone cream :) I asked her about Vitex. She said “let’s see how this works 1st”. My only concern is that Vitex takes several months to have an effect. I was planning on taking it so as to not lose time. I also bought Raspberry Leaf and Dandelion Leaf to make tea every morning (also – will that interfere with the hormones I am taking?). I am now taking progesterone cream and estrogen and progesterone sublingual to try to get my #’s where they need to be. Current #’s in case that influences what you may say:

    E1: 23.69

    E2: 1.52

    E3: 10.64

    EQ: .42

    Progesterone: 130.80

    Ratio of PG/E2: 86.05

    these #’s are all better from 3 months ago, but not quite where we need them to be with the progesterone for me to maintain a pregnancy.
    Thank you :)

  • Lurdes Hull

    I will try some of the suggestions above. I will buy the Maca supplement and some Red Rasberry leaf. I have been through 2 unsuccessful cycles of IVF. Nothing wrong has been found with me. I am 44 years of age and I have never been pregnant. My husband is 47. Maybe I am too old and should forget all about it. But I don’t look or feel 44, and I think it is unfair that I am being denied the pleasure of having my own child.

  • Sarah C

    Chelsea, I recently lost my baby at 36 weeks due to a blood clotting disorder. Hugs to you, it’s the worst thing in the world. Like you I will take asprin and heparin with any future pregnancies. My husband and I are currently trying to conceive again and I’m am doing everything I can to make sure that it happens quickly (it took over two years to conceive the first time). Which supplements above did you notice decrease bleeding? I want to make sure I avoid those! Or Wellness Mama, if you see this, are you aware of any supplements that decrease bleeding?

  • disqus_pzl8jRCaCr

    Hi Mama I’ve had 2 miscarriage i never pass my 1st trimester it starts of with spotting then i miscarried…
    My 3 pregnancy i had an ectopic that first started out with light spotting…. i have asthma, i was diagnosed with Arthritis about 2 yrs im 25 yrs old and about 6 months ago my doctor did a test and doesn’t. See any signs of arthritis, i was told its a chronic pain ( fibromyalgia) back pain, discomfort… i want to have a baby…
    What kind a do to help make this pregnancy successful im not pregnant right now…please thank you

  • hjm

    Hello! I am 30 years old and have a child from my previous marriage who was conceived when I was 24. The pregnancy was unplanned, but I had no complications during pregnancy or birth. My partner and I have decided to extend our family, but we are trying to time conception (so we can try for a summertime birth because of the school year). My partner has never conceived a child before (or tried to). I have been tracking my ovulation for about a cycle and a half, and have pretty regular menstrual periods. My target cycle for conception should begin at the end of July, so we’ve got about 3 1/2 months to try and “optimize” ourselves for conception. We are the same age, generally eat as close to whole food as possible, and over the last year or so have eliminated artificial colors, sweeteners, flavors, and preservatives from our diets. I am going to start working on weaning myself off of grains. What supplements would you recommend we each start taking now, and what should we start taking during our target cycle(s)? Also, while I have summers off, he still has to get up early for work every day. He drinks about 2 cups of coffee per day. If he were to wean himself off of caffeine before we try to conceive, about how long should it take for his body to recover from its effects (in terms of fertility). Any other advice for couples with no evidence of infertility who are simply trying to time conception?
    Thanks!

  • http://wellnessmama.com Wellness Mama

    The coffee is probably fine if you don’t have any reason to expect infertility. What I take to optimize nutrition before conceiving is: -1 tsp Fermented cod liver oil daily (both)
    -Magnesium (mag oil on skin and natural calm)
    -Folate
    -Zinc and selenium (him especially)
    -Lots of good fats, especially butter, coconut oil, and grassed meats and wild caught fish -Maca for both of you daily before (you stop conceiving cycle)

  • lisa

    My hormones are totally imbalanced. i am suffering from secondary infertility. I have a severe problem of PCOS. I have undergone multiple treatments from past 5 yrs. But nothing works out. I am very depressed. Read the whole article. But do not know how to go with it. Plzzzz plzzz help.

  • Vanessa

    Thank you for posting this info! My question for exercise: is Insanity too much exercise? Thank you!

  • http://wellnessmama.com Wellness Mama

    Depends on your body but probably…

  • Toni

    Hi I have been trying to become a mum for 4 years and have had a late misscaradge at 23+ weeks and then two early misscaradges after each roughly one year apart, as it takes me a year to get pregnant again on average, myself and my husband have had all the relavent tests and they can not find any underline problems, what would u suggest to help speed up conception and help to see the pregnancy through,
    Thank you.

  • http://wellnessmama.com Wellness Mama

    I’m not a doc, but if it were me, I’d try natural progesterone cream and continue it in early pregnancy. It is typically used in the seoncd half of each cycle (ovulation until menses) and in early pregnancy. Maca should be stopped during pregnancy…

  • Turntopage43

    Hi, I saw you online on your website and I so would like your help if it is possible. I will go on to tell you my story :) I’m married been 10 months I have two beautiful twin girls 7years old. We have been trying for more children for 7years with out any protection unprotected and no luck with conceiving we didn’t use anything just done it the good old fashioned way. We have been trying properly for 3 an half years using temps, clear blue ovulation tests checking my mucus from eating organic foods and vitamins i have also had reflexology a few years ago for a few times ect. We went to the doctors then they took tests from my blood to see if I’m ovulating correctly and when they took samples of urine and my hubby’s semen was normal. When had the tests done and back they had said I was ovulating fine and there doesn’t seem to be anything wrong with us at all they just said keep trying and it will happen. I then had to get transferred to a gynocologisit to see if I had blocked tubes and any other problems. I had been checked in November 2012 and no blocked tubes no anything else nasty going on all clear and healthy he said. I had a dye to see my X-ray for my tubes and he was happy with me he said just keep trying and come back in 6 months time that was back in November and nothing has 6 months is up now nothing has happened we are so very heart broken and we want a big happy healthy beautiful family. I really love to know if you would know whats best for us or if its me that needs something in helping us conceive more children we really want a boy this time round then another boy then another lil girl. We really are hoping we conceive this year we have wanted to conceive in the years but it feels we are unlucky really hope it happens for us. Im a very spiritual person I’m very connected with the moon as when I look up at the moon she brights up the night sky and the more I look at her the brighter it gets. Look forward hearing from you. Emily and Andre my email is lovethehardestway@gmail.com love and light to you :) xxx

    The newest from the gynecological is he can’t help us now and the only advice he gave was to keep trying it will happen even if it takes 5 years well we have already been trying 7 years. He had said we can Adopt, Foster or go for IVF we both want more children we want theses babies so much we want our girls to have siblings and be a big happy loving family. So now what do we do? What would help us Herbal? Anything else? We have lost all hope and we can’t help they way we are you would only understand unless you have been through it we want some happiness in our life we have been through so much.

  • Emily

    Dear Skye and Maria -
    Maria, I am so very sorry to hear about your experience with Dr. Hilgers in Omaha. Not to dimish your experience, but ours was quite the opposite. We felt that Dr. Hilgers and his associates helped treat the root causes of infertility without making promises about delivering a baby. From our perspective, they treat the whole person/couple (not just the infertility) and respect the dignity of the person in doing so. Again, Maria, I am very sorry you did not have this experience. After over 5 years of infertility, we were able to conceive after I had a laparotomy to remove stage 4 endometriosis. Our son just turned 3 yrs old. So, Skye, I do hope you have checked Pope Paul VI and Dr. Hilgers out for yourself, and I wish you both the very best!

  • Emily

    Dear Skye and Maria -
    Maria, I am so very sorry to hear about your experience with Dr. Hilgers in Omaha. Not to dimish your experience, but ours was quite the opposite. We felt that Dr. Hilgers and his associates helped treat the root causes of infertility without making promises about delivering a baby. From our perspective, they treat the whole person/couple (not just the infertility) and respect the dignity of the person in doing so. Again, Maria, I am very sorry you did not have this experience. After over 5 years of infertility, we were able to conceive after I had a laparotomy to remove stage 4 endometriosis. Our son just turned 3 yrs old. So, Skye, I do hope you have checked Pope Paul VI and Dr. Hilgers out for yourself, and I wish you both the very best!