Menstrual Cup: How to Use One for a Healthy, Eco-Friendly Period

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Periods can be a big problem. But not for the reasons TV commercials try to convince us they are.

Sure, some women have uncomfortable and painful periods (see info on that at the bottom of this post), but there are some other big problems with the “norm” when it comes to periods. Mainly:

Risks of Tampons and Pads

Most feminine hygiene options like pads and tampons contain harmful chemicals and pesticides that aren’t good in general. While unhealthy, they are especially problematic for the delicate and highly vascular area like the vagina. With once a month use for all of a woman’s child-bearing years, the chemical exposure builds up!

There are also health concerns like Toxic Shock Syndrome (TSS) from tampons and any absorbative products.

Unhealthy for the Planet

Health ramifications aside, options like pads and tampons aren’t good for the planet. Each woman will use an estimated 16,000 pads or tampons in her lifetime. These products end up in landfills, taking years and years to break down.

Most also contain plastic, which isn’t good for humans, but is also pretty terrible for the environment too.

Let me guess, right now, you may be thinking that you are just one person and you only contribute a small number of pads or tampons to the landfills.

natural feminine hygiene solutions

But did you know:

Each year, more than 12 BILLION sanitary pads and 7 BILLION tampons are dumped into landfills?

An average woman menstruates for over 40 years, leaving hundreds of pounds of disposable products in landfills.

Natural Period & Tampon Alternatives (That Work Better)

Fortunately, there are some great, organic and green alternatives to toxic, plastic containing disposables now. Most women shell out $5-14 per cycle on disposable products, so these options can save a lot of money over time!

If you haven’t already, consider switching to one of these. Not only are they healthier… but all of these options work better and are more comfortable than traditional pads and tampons. Plus you’ll save money too! A win:win for sure! And if you’re just not a menstrual cup person you can try period underwear. 

Menstrual Cups

It took me a while to try these, but I’m so glad I did! Here’s my review of popular brands:

The Diva Cup

As you may gather from its name, the Diva Cup is a silicone cup that is inserted vaginally and it takes the place of tampons and pads during your period. There are two sizes, one for pre-childbearing years and one for after you’ve had a child (or two or three or six…).

Unlike tampons, there is no danger of Toxic Shock Syndrome with the Diva Cup (or any menstrual cup) and it is completely reusable. It can be boiled to sanitize or washed with drinking water. Many women also report that it is much more comfortable, and most only have to change it every 8-12 hours, which is more convenient.

Luna Cup

The Diva Cup was the original, but there are now dozens of great menstrual cup options. Recently I had to purchase another menstrual cup when I was traveling and forgot to pack my Diva Cup. I got this Luna Cup and I have to say I actually like it a little better than the Diva Cup.

I should also put in my personal plug for menstrual cups in general. I’ll admit, when I first found out about them, I thought they were odd and couldn’t imagine using one. Now, I can’t imagine not using one. I’ve worn them overnight, on international flights, while scuba diving, while hiking 20+ miles, and in many other unusual situations. I have never had a leak or a problem and it has never been uncomfortable. Really.

In fact, since my periods are pretty light, I only have to dump the cup once a day, which is super convenient. In many ways, I don’t even notice being on my period now as I can go from gym to swimming to bed without having to change anything.

The first couple of uses it does take a little getting used to, but after that, it really is easier. Give them a try if you haven’t already!

Tips for Using a Menstrual Cup

How to use a menstrual cup like the diva cupHere’s the cheat sheet I wish I’d had on how to use a menstrual cup without the learning curve:

  1. Fold it first. There are dozens of ways to fold a menstrual cup to make it easier to insert. I squeeze mine in half and then fold it into a “C” shape so it easily pops back open once inserted.
  2. Insert like a tampon. Insert the folded cup like a tampon, angling it to the back of the spine. Make sure it fully unfolds to create a light suction. This suction keeps it from leaking. Check this by running your finger along the side to make sure it has unfolded completely. Pull down slightly if needed to make it more comfortable.
  3. Learn how long. How long you can wear a cup depends on how heavy your cycle is. The good news is that many women find their cycles get lighter and easier when they start using a cup. Like I said, I can wear mine for 24 hours, but the average seems to be about 12.
  4. Remove, clean and reuse. Wash your hands really well and pull down on the stem of the menstrual cup to release it. Once you’ve pulled it down slightly, gently push on one side to release the suction and carefully remove. Empty into the toilet and wash well with warm water before reinserting.
  5. When in doubt, turn inside out. This is a tip I learned from my midwife. If it is uncomfortable or you have trouble with leaks, turn the cup inside out. It works like a charm, and is really comfortable this way. It is slightly harder to remove, so just use your pelvic floor muscles to gently push it down to remove it.

Cloth Menstrual Pads

If a menstrual cup is not your thing, there are also a lot of options for cloth menstrual pads. These are more comfortable than plastic based pads! They have a waterproof liner so they don’t leak through clothes and are washable so they are eco-friendly too.

My favorites are these handmade cloth menstrual pads from a local family-owned business  (they can ship them worldwide!). They’re handmade by busy midwives and are great cloth pads that have lasted me for years and years!

Organic Menstrual Pads

If the idea of a menstrual cup or cloth pads isn’t your thing, it is possible to find organic disposable tampons or disposable pads so you can at least avoid the chemicals in the conventional versions.

Sea Sponge Tampons

Another great completely natural option is Sea Sponge tampons. They work similarly to a Diva Cup and collect flow. When removed, they can be easily rinsed out a re-used. These are the ones I’ve tried. I personally found them less comfortable than cloth pads or a cup though.

Natural Period Pain Relief

Tylenol and other acetaminophen-based pain relief options are chemically based and emerging research is finding that they are toxic to your mitochondria (you need those little guys!). Luckily, there are a lot of natural options out that, and you can also address the underlying problem and not just mask the pain.

  • Vitex – A fertility aid that also helps ease menstrual cramps by balancing hormones. It is also used by herbalists for increasing fertility, though it should be discontinued when a woman becomes pregnant. When not pregnant, it can be taken daily in capsule form or tincture form. For a full explanation of vitex and its benefits, see this post.
  • Red Clover – Another herb that is supportive of menstrual health and function. It has been known to ease endometriosis and PCOS and is helpful for cramps. It should also be discontinued when a woman becomes pregnant. When not pregnant, it can be taken daily. I’ve tried this brand.
  • Progesterone Cream – A natural progesterone cream is perhaps the best remedy, long-term for many menstrual problems. I’ve had many clients conceive by adding progesterone to their regimen, and it also helps ease cramps. Many menstrual problems can be caused or exacerbated by too much estrogen in the body, and progesterone helps balance it out. If used, it should only be used in the second half of the cycle (ovulation until start of the period) and applied to the skin of fatty areas of the body like the thighs, buttocks, stomach, breasts and upper arms. I’ve used this brand in the past but recently switched to this one on Dr. Anna Cabeca’s recommendation in this podcast.
  • Magnesium – Taking magnesium regularly may also really help ease cramps (and there are a lot of other benefits to taking magnesium too!) My favorite brand by far is this time-release formula. Read more about magnesium in this post.
  • Homeopathy – Our medical reviewer Dr. Madiha recommends a homeopathic product called Cyclease and uses it herself. If you’re curious, I wrote a whole post about homeopathetic remedies here.

This article was medically reviewed by Madiha Saeed, MD, a board certified family physician. As always, this is not personal medical advice and we recommend that you talk with your doctor.

This article was medically reviewed by Dr. Betsy Greenleaf, an ON/GYN and board certified urogynecologist. As always, this is not personal medical advice and we recommend that you talk with your doctor.

Do you have any natural tips for dealing with feminine health? Ever used any of the suggestions above? Please let me know below!

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About Katie Wells

Katie Wells, CTNC, MCHC, Founder of Wellness Mama and Co-founder of Wellnesse, has a background in research, journalism, and nutrition. As a mom of six, she turned to research and took health into her own hands to find answers to her health problems. WellnessMama.com is the culmination of her thousands of hours of research and all posts are medically reviewed and verified by the Wellness Mama research team. Katie is also the author of the bestselling books The Wellness Mama Cookbook and The Wellness Mama 5-Step Lifestyle Detox.

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262 responses to “Menstrual Cup: How to Use One for a Healthy, Eco-Friendly Period”

  1. Renee Avatar

    I have been using DIVA cup for over 15 year now. LOVE IT, and frett if I leave mine at home, and have to resort to tampons. UGH! The only precaution, do make sure to wash is thoroughly, as a film starts to form on the outside, causing yeast infections. Boil regularly (disinfect) and scrub it down all over at least once every few months…

  2. Laura Avatar

    Hi everyone, I was wondering if anyone has tried the Thinx panties. They seem interesting, no insertion or strain… Apologies in advance if there is already a discussion on this, there are so many comments, I couldn’t read all of them…

  3. Ann-Marie Avatar
    Ann-Marie

    I have been using the Sckoon cup for almost a year now and it is seriously the best thing ever! I wish I had known about these things years ago as well. I will definately get one for my daughter when the time comes. I am no good dealing with blood and actually fainted the first time I got my period, was regularly grossed out every month for 20 something years until I found the cup. I thought it would be disgusting but still was intrigued and dropped the $40. Best $40 I ever spent! It took me a few cycles to get the hang of it but now it is so easy and clean. Everything stays “in there”, no more disgusting things in the bathroom trash. Just for my own peace of mind I do use a panty liner but there really is no need. Weird but I actually look forward to my period now. What was once a dreadful time of the month is now a breeze. Seriously, try it ladies, you will be amazed I think.

  4. Nicole B. Avatar
    Nicole B.

    I love my diva cup. I use it in conjunction with cloth liners just in case of a little leakage. As for menstrual cramp, what I have found to work the best is essential oils. I use 2 drops jojoba oil with 2 drops lavender and one drop clary sage. I massage it on my lower abdomen and back. Whatever is left I put on my ankles on the reproductive vita flex points. Cramps are gone or significantly eased within minutes.

  5. Ashley Avatar

    The DivaCup unfortunately hurts me and I can’t use it. I had horrible pain and almost passed out from it. I would like to use it or one similar to it. I now use cloth pads that I made myself. For cramps I usually apply a heating pad to my abdomen and rub lavender on as well. I will be trying the red raspberry leaf tea! Any suggestions on a cup that isn’t as large as the DivaCup? I’m 30 and have had 3 children.

  6. Amy Swiatek Avatar
    Amy Swiatek

    I have fallen in love with the menstral cup. I use a Lunette one. I gave it a try after hearing about them online and from my niece. It’s almost like you don’t have your period. I believe that my cramps are less severe and my period is shorter when I use the cup. I would buy another one in a heartbeat. It took a month or two to get comfortable with it, but I love it!

  7. Victoria Avatar
    Victoria

    I have a Lunette menstrual cup and Fuzzi Bunz cloth pantiliners. They are the best investment i ever made.
    Gaia Herbs women’s blend and their Vitex elixer are wonderful.

  8. Cat Avatar

    Hi Katie, I found your website a year or so ago when I first went on my Eco journey and I love it, your information is some of the best I have read. I have been using your reminiralzing toothpaste since and it is brilliant. I have been using a moon cup for the last 6 months, I never used tampons as I could never get on with them, I used bodyform pads for years but they chafed and it was very uncomfortable. The moon cup or cups in general can be uncomfortable for some people but there is a lot of info on the Internet of different ways to insert them and with a bit of trial and error can help to get them in the right place. Other brands will undoubtedly be better for different people as some are softer and some are harder. I will never go back using pads. Thank you for all your fantastic info. I will continue to visit your site for years to come

  9. Katie Avatar

    I LOVE the diva cup. I clean it with the brand’s cleanser because I wasn’t sure what else to use since castille soap is not recommended & I don’t think my roommates would appreciate me boiling it in the kitchen! Make sure that you keep the little holes under the rim clear with a tack so it doesn’t suck onto your cervix. I tried sea sponges but they fell apart & leaked (ew!). I have reinserted it in a public bathroom without rinsing it, which is not ideal, but I didn’t have any problems…

  10. Rachael Trotter Avatar
    Rachael Trotter

    I use Lunette cup and love it! I am 37 and have a 9 year old daughter born via csection, and I needed the “hadn’t” had kids cup. The other was to big and very uncomfortable. For cramps I highly recommend a blend by doTERRA called Clarey Calm which works wonders for menstrual cramps or any other cramps for that matter. My hubby had a stomach bug and his stomach kept cramping, I told him it worked for me during my periods and so he tried it and it worked! It’s just natural and oil that you rub on your abdomen or the outline of your uterus on the abdomen and it greatly reduces or gets rid of the cramps.
    I would highly recommend NOT using any progesterone cream. It isn’t natural. They do add some natural things to it like wild yam extract, but that is added to the manufactured base. It is a small bit better then the conventional but it isn’t natural. I know it’s weird and a lot out of the box, but I recommend seeing a Chinese medicine Doctor. I tried acupuncture, a naturopath, and a OBGYN that was a DO and it didn’t help. But the Chinese medicine Doctor straightened me out.

  11. Mariana Avatar

    The Diva Cup crossed my path years ago when I made my first discoveries on natural birth and a greener life. I got so excited I immediately order one and been advocating for it ever since. I just love it! Had to throw mine away after years of use because the silicon finally got old (and because I got pregnant and had my baby, so it wasn’t my size anymore). I am about to get another one (as soon as I get fertile again, which hasn’t happened yet). But I absolutely love it and got used to it within a couple of days. I felt so free wearing it! No more disposable pads, which gave me allergies specially in hot summer.
    I rather clean up the Diva cup every time I go pee. Maybe that wasn’t a real need, but made me feel lighter and not risking a leakage in the event that it would get too full or the next restroom trip would take too long. So when I wasn’t at home and needed to clean it up in a public restroom, I used to carry around a small plastic bottle which I filled up with water in the restroom sink, then wash the cup while in the cabin, throwing the water in the toilet. Cup back in, rinsing hands with the remaining water before leaving the cabin and all done! Nice, clean and ecologic.

    1. Alisa Avatar

      Were you able to use it right after pregnancy, when heavy bleeding is expected?

  12. Jamie Avatar

    Hi Katie! These have been very helpful. I started switching to cloth pads. I have a question though, what are your thoughts on washing your hoo-ha? Do you just use water? Or use natural cleansers like Bronners soap or hydrogen peroxide? Is this okay on a regular basis or just when you’re on your period? Sorry I know it’s very private but I just wanna hear your thoughts about this because I keep having infections down there. Thanks alot!

  13. Amber Avatar

    My question is if anyone has ever purchased the diva cup for their teenage daughter?? How did it go over?? I use the diva cup and LOVE it…like “where have you been all of my life!!” Now that i use an all natural product I would like my daughter to only have natural products when she starts her period!! Suggestions?? Thoughts??

  14. Ashley Avatar

    I’m glad to see so many praises for menstrual cups! I’ve been a fan for years also! I do have a question I’m hoping someone more educated can help me with after my Internet search has still left me without answers. Are they safe? Is silicone, even medical grade, safe to put into your body?

  15. Angela Avatar

    I went off the pill about a year ago because I didn’t like what it was starting to do to my menstrual cycle. The original reason I went on the pill was far severe, debilitating cramps, and I was worried they would come back, but since I’d been on the pill for years I figured it was worth a shot. Well, they did come back (not quite as bad as they had been before, but still). Then I started looking into other things besides tampons because I was starting to do research and found that tampons are TERRIBLE for your body (THANK YOU KATIE!!!). I was super skeptical of the Diva Cup at first… it just sounded weird and uncomfortable. It took me a few months to get up the courage to buy one, and then another month to try it. The first month was awkward. It took some getting used to, but honestly, thinking back, the tampon was just as awkward when I first started using those. The weirdest part was the mess. It was messy at first because I didn’t have a system down, and I didn’t know what to do at work in a public restroom. The second month was a little better, but still weird. The third month did the trick. I got a routine down, got the hang of it, and I will never look back. These are the most comfortable things in the world, I don’t have to change them all the time, they are virtually leak proof unless I have a particularly heavy month, in which case I STILL don’t change it as often as I would a tampon. It’s also really not that messy once you figure out what works for you. AND, to top it off, I really don’t have cramps anymore. Maybe some mild ones now and then, but nothing severe and NOTHING like the cramps I had that originally put me on the pill. I’m starting to wonder if those cramps were at least partially caused by using tampons.

    Side note, I saw someone above ask if virgins can use it. Sorry if it’s TMI, but I’m a virgin and the only thing that I had a hard time with was getting it in the first few times, and that was just because I wasn’t used to how different it was from a tampon. It doesn’t feel at all uncomfortable to use or put in once you figure out a method that works for your body, and I think that is true for everyone, not just virgins.

  16. Nicole Avatar

    Hello Katie,

    Thank you very much for the informative article! I will definitely order that Raspberry Leaf tea, if I only had it a few days ago! I am also definitely going to look into purchasing a Diva Cup

    The comments section and suggestions are very helpful as well!

    Thank you!

  17. Aimee Avatar

    I’m super excited to try a menstrual cup! I’ve used tampons for years (because they’re more comfortable than pads for me) and have terrible cramps and back pain. I’m intruiged by the idea of a lighter flow and a shorter period as well as less pain! I found a less expensive American made cup called Anigan EvaCup. Do you, Katie, or anyone else know if it is a decent brand? I’ve been contemplating a lunette because I’m short. Also, I’m 29 and haven’t had a kiddo. The decision between small and large sizes has me perplexed! Thank you in advance. =]

  18. Linda Avatar

    I use the diva cup too and love it. I have no idea how I ever lived without it. It holds about twice as much as a tampon which is really nice on heavy days. I make my own pad. I buy waterproof PLU fabric and hemp fabric on amazon (the hemp is super absorbent). I take the waterproof fabric for the bottom, 1-4 layers of hemp (dependent on absorbency) and then a layer of my children’s old baby swaddling blankets. I then cut it all into a curvy, long t-shape and run the sewing machine around the outside and lengthwise straight down. I use the snap in plastics snaps you can put on yourself like a hole-punch. They take about 30 minutes to make several and last forever! The idea was a modified version of my kids homemade pull-ups. If they ever get a bit stained, I sprinkle some dr bronners on the spot and soak for a bit. Th entire tampon/pad industry is a giant scam in my mind. I agree with the earlier poster – on the rare occasion that I still use a pad or tampon I get a giant rash down there. I can’t imagine teh chemicals that I was soaking up down there!

  19. Robin Epperson Avatar
    Robin Epperson

    What I have to reply on is not really considered feminine hygiene but runs along the same category.

    I have learned quite a few things from middle eastern countries & wanted to share what I feel may be a good way to keep hygienically clean after using the bathroom.

    They keep a small water pot (like those used in watering plants) on the back of the toilet. Everytime they use the bathroom, whether #1 or #2, they fill the small water pot with warm water, use the restroom and since the water pot has a long-type snout, they point downwards towards the privates and cleanse to wash away the urine or poo.

    Some use a liquid soap to wash as well, but I personally don’t use soap there as I heard it washes away vital bacteria in those areas.

    After using, you wash your hands with soap and water.

    The friends I had did not use toilet paper and explained to me that this does not clean the area after going to the bathroom, but only smears it around.

    I would like to hear you input on this.

    P.S. Is anyone young enough to remember the old pastel colored toilet paper they used to sell?

    Thank you…

    1. Heidi Avatar

      You can get a bidet on Amazon that attaches to your own toilet, and does basically the same thing. My husband works in a DIY store and they actually sell bidet toilets there, too. I’d like to buy the one on Amazon–it is less than $50 and after researching them, agree about the toilet paper–it just smears stuff all over a girl! LOL.

  20. Erica Avatar

    The organic menstrual pad lot are currently unavailable on Amazon. Do you have another recommendation?

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