Menstrual Cup: How to Use One for a Healthy, Eco-Friendly Period

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Periods can be a big problem. But not for the reasons TV commercials try to convince us they are.

Sure, some women have uncomfortable and painful periods (see info on that at the bottom of this post), but there are some other big problems with the “norm” when it comes to periods. Mainly:

Risks of Tampons and Pads

Most feminine hygiene options like pads and tampons contain harmful chemicals and pesticides that aren’t good in general. While unhealthy, they are especially problematic for the delicate and highly vascular area like the vagina. With once a month use for all of a woman’s child-bearing years, the chemical exposure builds up!

There are also health concerns like Toxic Shock Syndrome (TSS) from tampons and any absorbative products.

Unhealthy for the Planet

Health ramifications aside, options like pads and tampons aren’t good for the planet. Each woman will use an estimated 16,000 pads or tampons in her lifetime. These products end up in landfills, taking years and years to break down.

Most also contain plastic, which isn’t good for humans, but is also pretty terrible for the environment too.

Let me guess, right now, you may be thinking that you are just one person and you only contribute a small number of pads or tampons to the landfills.

natural feminine hygiene solutions

But did you know:

Each year, more than 12 BILLION sanitary pads and 7 BILLION tampons are dumped into landfills?

An average woman menstruates for over 40 years, leaving hundreds of pounds of disposable products in landfills.

Natural Period & Tampon Alternatives (That Work Better)

Fortunately, there are some great, organic and green alternatives to toxic, plastic containing disposables now. Most women shell out $5-14 per cycle on disposable products, so these options can save a lot of money over time!

If you haven’t already, consider switching to one of these. Not only are they healthier… but all of these options work better and are more comfortable than traditional pads and tampons. Plus you’ll save money too! A win:win for sure! And if you’re just not a menstrual cup person you can try period underwear. 

Menstrual Cups

It took me a while to try these, but I’m so glad I did! Here’s my review of popular brands:

The Diva Cup

As you may gather from its name, the Diva Cup is a silicone cup that is inserted vaginally and it takes the place of tampons and pads during your period. There are two sizes, one for pre-childbearing years and one for after you’ve had a child (or two or three or six…).

Unlike tampons, there is no danger of Toxic Shock Syndrome with the Diva Cup (or any menstrual cup) and it is completely reusable. It can be boiled to sanitize or washed with drinking water. Many women also report that it is much more comfortable, and most only have to change it every 8-12 hours, which is more convenient.

Luna Cup

The Diva Cup was the original, but there are now dozens of great menstrual cup options. Recently I had to purchase another menstrual cup when I was traveling and forgot to pack my Diva Cup. I got this Luna Cup and I have to say I actually like it a little better than the Diva Cup.

I should also put in my personal plug for menstrual cups in general. I’ll admit, when I first found out about them, I thought they were odd and couldn’t imagine using one. Now, I can’t imagine not using one. I’ve worn them overnight, on international flights, while scuba diving, while hiking 20+ miles, and in many other unusual situations. I have never had a leak or a problem and it has never been uncomfortable. Really.

In fact, since my periods are pretty light, I only have to dump the cup once a day, which is super convenient. In many ways, I don’t even notice being on my period now as I can go from gym to swimming to bed without having to change anything.

The first couple of uses it does take a little getting used to, but after that, it really is easier. Give them a try if you haven’t already!

Tips for Using a Menstrual Cup

How to use a menstrual cup like the diva cupHere’s the cheat sheet I wish I’d had on how to use a menstrual cup without the learning curve:

  1. Fold it first. There are dozens of ways to fold a menstrual cup to make it easier to insert. I squeeze mine in half and then fold it into a “C” shape so it easily pops back open once inserted.
  2. Insert like a tampon. Insert the folded cup like a tampon, angling it to the back of the spine. Make sure it fully unfolds to create a light suction. This suction keeps it from leaking. Check this by running your finger along the side to make sure it has unfolded completely. Pull down slightly if needed to make it more comfortable.
  3. Learn how long. How long you can wear a cup depends on how heavy your cycle is. The good news is that many women find their cycles get lighter and easier when they start using a cup. Like I said, I can wear mine for 24 hours, but the average seems to be about 12.
  4. Remove, clean and reuse. Wash your hands really well and pull down on the stem of the menstrual cup to release it. Once you’ve pulled it down slightly, gently push on one side to release the suction and carefully remove. Empty into the toilet and wash well with warm water before reinserting.
  5. When in doubt, turn inside out. This is a tip I learned from my midwife. If it is uncomfortable or you have trouble with leaks, turn the cup inside out. It works like a charm, and is really comfortable this way. It is slightly harder to remove, so just use your pelvic floor muscles to gently push it down to remove it.

Cloth Menstrual Pads

If a menstrual cup is not your thing, there are also a lot of options for cloth menstrual pads. These are more comfortable than plastic based pads! They have a waterproof liner so they don’t leak through clothes and are washable so they are eco-friendly too.

My favorites are these handmade cloth menstrual pads from a local family-owned business  (they can ship them worldwide!). They’re handmade by busy midwives and are great cloth pads that have lasted me for years and years!

Organic Menstrual Pads

If the idea of a menstrual cup or cloth pads isn’t your thing, it is possible to find organic disposable tampons or disposable pads so you can at least avoid the chemicals in the conventional versions.

Sea Sponge Tampons

Another great completely natural option is Sea Sponge tampons. They work similarly to a Diva Cup and collect flow. When removed, they can be easily rinsed out a re-used. These are the ones I’ve tried. I personally found them less comfortable than cloth pads or a cup though.

Natural Period Pain Relief

Tylenol and other acetaminophen-based pain relief options are chemically based and emerging research is finding that they are toxic to your mitochondria (you need those little guys!). Luckily, there are a lot of natural options out that, and you can also address the underlying problem and not just mask the pain.

  • Vitex – A fertility aid that also helps ease menstrual cramps by balancing hormones. It is also used by herbalists for increasing fertility, though it should be discontinued when a woman becomes pregnant. When not pregnant, it can be taken daily in capsule form or tincture form. For a full explanation of vitex and its benefits, see this post.
  • Red Clover – Another herb that is supportive of menstrual health and function. It has been known to ease endometriosis and PCOS and is helpful for cramps. It should also be discontinued when a woman becomes pregnant. When not pregnant, it can be taken daily. I’ve tried this brand.
  • Progesterone Cream – A natural progesterone cream is perhaps the best remedy, long-term for many menstrual problems. I’ve had many clients conceive by adding progesterone to their regimen, and it also helps ease cramps. Many menstrual problems can be caused or exacerbated by too much estrogen in the body, and progesterone helps balance it out. If used, it should only be used in the second half of the cycle (ovulation until start of the period) and applied to the skin of fatty areas of the body like the thighs, buttocks, stomach, breasts and upper arms. I’ve used this brand in the past but recently switched to this one on Dr. Anna Cabeca’s recommendation in this podcast.
  • Magnesium – Taking magnesium regularly may also really help ease cramps (and there are a lot of other benefits to taking magnesium too!) My favorite brand by far is this time-release formula. Read more about magnesium in this post.
  • Homeopathy – Our medical reviewer Dr. Madiha recommends a homeopathic product called Cyclease and uses it herself. If you’re curious, I wrote a whole post about homeopathetic remedies here.

This article was medically reviewed by Madiha Saeed, MD, a board certified family physician. As always, this is not personal medical advice and we recommend that you talk with your doctor.

This article was medically reviewed by Dr. Betsy Greenleaf, an ON/GYN and board certified urogynecologist. As always, this is not personal medical advice and we recommend that you talk with your doctor.

Do you have any natural tips for dealing with feminine health? Ever used any of the suggestions above? Please let me know below!

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About Katie Wells

Katie Wells, CTNC, MCHC, Founder of Wellness Mama and Co-founder of Wellnesse, has a background in research, journalism, and nutrition. As a mom of six, she turned to research and took health into her own hands to find answers to her health problems. WellnessMama.com is the culmination of her thousands of hours of research and all posts are medically reviewed and verified by the Wellness Mama research team. Katie is also the author of the bestselling books The Wellness Mama Cookbook and The Wellness Mama 5-Step Lifestyle Detox.

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262 responses to “Menstrual Cup: How to Use One for a Healthy, Eco-Friendly Period”

  1. Liza Avatar

    I’ve had my Diva Cup for four or five years now and it is so simple! The only problems I’ve had with it are:
    1. Cleaning it in a public bathroom
    2. Residual smell during the last few days of my period. After trying different rinses, soaps, boiling it with vinegar, etc. I’ve found the best solution for smell/discoloration is to put the Diva Cup in the direct sun for a few hours and it seems good as new!

  2. Monica Avatar

    Has anyone had any irritation with the Diva cup? I put it in and I didn’t think I was allergic to it but maybe I am. Does anyone have any tips I really want it to work.

  3. Alisa Avatar

    I have been using my Diva Cup for almost a year now! I love it! No more having to worry bout changing pads or tampons. It is very comfy and easy to clean. I found spending 25$ for a Diva Cup was worth the cost over buying almost $100 dollars a year on pads! Try it ladies, it’ll change your life.

  4. Marla Muckosky Avatar
    Marla Muckosky

    When I first heard about the Diva Cup a few years ago, my initial reaction was “Eww, gross!”. A few years later I saw them online, learned more about them and decided to give it a try. I have to say, I LOVE it! I will never go back to pads or tampons. I love that I’m saving so much from going in the landfill, plus I’m way more confident with my Diva Cup then I ever was with a pad or tampon (for leaking). It took me a while to get used to it, and some days (even after using it for over a year) I need to re-insert it to get it positioned right, but I still love it.

  5. Lori Appleman Avatar
    Lori Appleman

    I’ve been using the Today cups for years as it was the only thing that worked reliably when I had really monstrously heavy periods in my 40’s. After a few years I decided to try washing them (and I’ll splash some rubbing alcohol on them) and now use only 1 or 2 per period. I’ve also learned how to tell if it’s about to leak so I’ve not had an accident in a decade. Lastly, no one mentioned that cups, including the Diva above, can allow for clean sex during menstruation.

  6. Alice Avatar

    I use diva cup. I am an advocate of alternatives to what the public wants us to think is convenient. The diva cup is more convenient and more comfortable than anything I’ve used.

  7. Lisa Avatar

    Thanks so much! I love all your articles and recipes! I was wondering about the safety of Vitex for someone who obviously has hormone issues, (endometriosis, cycts, cystic acne, PMS, etc.) I am saving my money to go to an OBGYN/Naturopath, but it will be months out before I can see him and get my hormones tested. It would be nice to have some relief now, but I want to weigh the risks. Thanks again!!

  8. Melanie Avatar

    Do you know if these menstrual cramp remedies are safe while breastfeeding?

  9. Olivia Avatar

    I used to have horrible periods…to the point of vomiting, dizziness and generally feeling like my life was flashing before my eyes (not literally but almost). After my son was born a couple of years ago I bought one and was pleased with how easy it was to get used to with such a heavy and painful cycle. Mid-night trips to the bathroom were a bit hard at first (being half asleep didn’t help) but after a few months I was and still am very confident in using the diva cup. And even better!!… my periods now last 5 days instead of nine, I rarely have more than about 8 hrs of cramping where it used to be a couple days at beginning and end…said cramps are also so mild I can still function, I am saving a ton of money and saving on my carbon footprint to boot! I have tried to get every woman that will listen to try them…because if it made such a huge difference for me then what could it do for you? Sadly I think in my family I’ve been labeled the “hippie” family member that cans her own food and touches her own menses…lol… and I suppose I am but I will NEVER go back to tampons…ever! I am curiously waiting to see if some suggestions for regulating hormones from wellness mama will relieve some of the, albeit slight, discomfort I now have each month.
    Sorry for the lengthy post but it’s worth it to me to let as many women know about the difference it made. I am sure that the chemicals in tampons are at least partly to blame for how severe my periods were and it’s a shame that I suffered through it as long as I did when it could have been prevented. I hope this helps in any way whoever reads it.
    Thanks for the article Wellness Mama. : )

    1. April Avatar

      You might also try acupuncture and Chinese herbs. My cycle used to be unbearable (pain wise, and length wise… sometimes giving me only a few “normal” days out of every month). I started acupuncture and within two visits I had already seen a noticeable difference! My acupuncturist is also an expert in Chinese herbs, so with each session she would adjust as needed. It became such that I could expect my period to start on a specific day (sometimes within minutes of leaving her office), they would only last for 3-5 days, and I’d have no moodiness, no cramping, no clotting, and they’d be a normal flow. I was even able to identify my pregnancy only DAYS after becoming pregnant because I finally had a “normal” and easy cycle.

      I recommend acupuncture to any woman who has hormone imbalance issues (also used Progest bioidentical progesterone cream — I have had an excess of estrogen, extremely low progesterone, thyroid issues, and endometriosis). I tried vitex tincture but it never seemed to work for me. Since having a child 4 months ago, I’m not sure what my cycle will be like once it regulates (my first one back was incredibly heavy with no cramps) but my fingers are crossed that it doesn’t go back to (or become worse than) it was! Best of luck to you!! I can definitely say “I feel your pain!” And I’m with you… the cup has changed my life! (along with acupuncture). 🙂

  10. Rana Avatar

    Oh wellnessmama, I so loved reading about this and the comments below, thank you ladies.

    I am more convinced to try the Diva/Moon cup now.

    As for the cramps, I have been doing this routine over the past 5 months, it take the body a while to get used to a new natural routine, you just have to be patient. One week ahead I start making sure I include lots of green leafs and nuts into my daily diet (not that I change much of what I eat, I do not actually. but i make sure I do not forget. I have read this somewhere – but except my apologies I cannot remember where, that nut oils are excellent for the pain). Also I do Yoga twice a week. And when in pain I try to walk, I know most of us would not be in any physical or mind state to move, but trust me walking is excellent. Also I drink sage. All this helps reduce the pain, sometimes it manages to creep in, but I do as mentioned and it would not last much.

    Happy, healthy living for all 🙂

  11. Katie Huie Avatar
    Katie Huie

    I’ve been using the diva cup for about 6 years and I love it. I don’t have to worry about it, even when travelling or camping. Highly recommend this product! Buck up and spend the $40. Well worth it.

  12. Michelle Avatar
    Michelle

    I mostly use a Diva cup too. After doing a lot of internet based research, I first bought a Lady Cup, but I’m ‘long in the wheel base’ and struggled to reach it to remove it, yikes! It took a number of cycles to feel I mastered the Diva – its amazing how a few short millimeters makes such a difference. I find it best to remove sitting on the toilet and tipping my weight slightly onto one hip.

    I’ve seen in NZ the sea sponges marketed as ‘Jam Sponge’. I’d love a set for those days I struggle with the Diva.

    The Diva is also handy after coitus, collecting fluid and disposing of it in one hit at a convenient time, rather than experiencing prolonged leakage. (Some use it for a fertility aid, if you want to believe that theory.)

  13. Kristina M Avatar
    Kristina M

    I started out with disposable cups (before taking the plunge for the Diva cup), and found I really liked it (especially once I got more comfortable with the idea of a “hands on” approach to my cycle). So, I ordered the Diva Cup and was so excited. I am in the middle of my child-bearing years, and have yet to have children. I ordered the smaller size and have time and again decided not to use it. For me, it is too big and bulky – both a problem for initial placement and a problem for every moment thereafter. I have tried everything I can and am sure that I am using it properly. I have gone back to disposable ones because they are comfortable and have a longer wear time… Glad that others have had better luck.

    1. May Avatar

      One thing a few of the ladies here have mentioned is that they find the Diva Cup to be too small/large or uncomfortable. Many sites where reusable feminine hygiene products are discussed recommend to try another brand of cup, as all the brands have slightly different shapes, sizes and even materials from which they are made, so you might find another one to be more suitable to your shape, size or condition.
      Personally I use Juju, which is an Australian product, made from medical grade silicone and seems to be a little slimmer than some of the others available on the market, so it might suit some woman better, especially if you have strong pelvic floor muscles.

  14. Kat Avatar

    I absolutely LOVE my Diva Cup and my cloth pads. Seriously…. my cloth pads are like wearing my favourite flannel pjs. They’re so comfortable! Once you get over the stain factor, you love ’em.

    Also, for the Diva Cup, this is probably what I use for about 80-90% of the time I’m letting it all out. (; I really only have to change it about once at night, and first thing in the morning. No leaks, no muss, no fuss! Of course, I practically cut the whole tab off for comfort, but reaching in to grab it doesn’t bother me a bit.

  15. Andrea Meyer Avatar
    Andrea Meyer

    Hi. I just received my Diva Cup after reading this article yesterday and am reading the instructions. Can anyone recommend a specific soap (other than the Diva Wash, which I did not order) that I can get at the store today? I’d like to start using right away (though I am nervous!)

    1. Wellness Mama Avatar
      Wellness Mama

      I think liquid castle soap (like Dr. Bronners) is ok on silicon as well…

      1. Karen Garay Avatar
        Karen Garay

        The package specifically says not to use castile soap because it can degrade the silicone.

  16. Kaylie Avatar

    I’ve been wanting to try the diva cup, but haven’t had the extra money to dish out yet (not that it’s expensive, it’s about $33 where I work, thats just $33 extra that I don’t have lying around…) but I will have to read comments to hear some opinions. Also wanted to mention, when I have cramps, I use something called cramp bark which is all herbal. I use it in a dropper, and I drop about 20-30 drops of it in a juice (so I don’t taste it as much) and it works great. After a little bit you may need to drink a bit more, but thus far it’s my favorite thing to use for cramps!

  17. Stacey Springall Avatar
    Stacey Springall

    I got my first Diva about 7 years ago. I replaced it just last year. Not because it was breaking down but because it started to get pretty nasty looking. I ABSOLUTELY LOVE IT! I couldn’t imagine using anything else and best of all it was created by a mother daughter team here in my town. 🙂 They also have a wash that you can use to wash your Diva and your yoni, and it is ph balanced so it shouldn’t affect anyone. I’m fairly sensitive in that area myself and haven’t had any issues yet. I actually empty mine a couple of times a day but mostly that is just my need for cleanliness. Can’t say enough about my Diva and if/when my daughter is ready to use one for her moon time – we’ll get her one too. 🙂

  18. Irene Tiger Avatar
    Irene Tiger

    I find that a good pilates session with lots of core exercises is I find that

  19. Gloria Powell Avatar
    Gloria Powell

    I have a question that is slightly off-topic: Do you have any suggestions for natural feminine wash–for the outside area?

    1. Erin Avatar

      I use summer’s eve. I don’t know if it’s “green” exactly, but I don’t know if I want to risk the experimentation of something else because this works so great and I am not a happy camper if something goes wrong with my vagina.

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