Menstrual Cup: How to Use One for a Healthy, Eco-Friendly Period

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Periods can be a big problem. But not for the reasons TV commercials try to convince us they are.

Sure, some women have uncomfortable and painful periods (see info on that at the bottom of this post), but there are some other big problems with the “norm” when it comes to periods. Mainly:

Risks of Tampons and Pads

Most feminine hygiene options like pads and tampons contain harmful chemicals and pesticides that aren’t good in general. While unhealthy, they are especially problematic for the delicate and highly vascular area like the vagina. With once a month use for all of a woman’s child-bearing years, the chemical exposure builds up!

There are also health concerns like Toxic Shock Syndrome (TSS) from tampons and any absorbative products.

Unhealthy for the Planet

Health ramifications aside, options like pads and tampons aren’t good for the planet. Each woman will use an estimated 16,000 pads or tampons in her lifetime. These products end up in landfills, taking years and years to break down.

Most also contain plastic, which isn’t good for humans, but is also pretty terrible for the environment too.

Let me guess, right now, you may be thinking that you are just one person and you only contribute a small number of pads or tampons to the landfills.

natural feminine hygiene solutions

But did you know:

Each year, more than 12 BILLION sanitary pads and 7 BILLION tampons are dumped into landfills?

An average woman menstruates for over 40 years, leaving hundreds of pounds of disposable products in landfills.

Natural Period & Tampon Alternatives (That Work Better)

Fortunately, there are some great, organic and green alternatives to toxic, plastic containing disposables now. Most women shell out $5-14 per cycle on disposable products, so these options can save a lot of money over time!

If you haven’t already, consider switching to one of these. Not only are they healthier… but all of these options work better and are more comfortable than traditional pads and tampons. Plus you’ll save money too! A win:win for sure! And if you’re just not a menstrual cup person you can try period underwear. 

Menstrual Cups

It took me a while to try these, but I’m so glad I did! Here’s my review of popular brands:

The Diva Cup

As you may gather from its name, the Diva Cup is a silicone cup that is inserted vaginally and it takes the place of tampons and pads during your period. There are two sizes, one for pre-childbearing years and one for after you’ve had a child (or two or three or six…).

Unlike tampons, there is no danger of Toxic Shock Syndrome with the Diva Cup (or any menstrual cup) and it is completely reusable. It can be boiled to sanitize or washed with drinking water. Many women also report that it is much more comfortable, and most only have to change it every 8-12 hours, which is more convenient.

Luna Cup

The Diva Cup was the original, but there are now dozens of great menstrual cup options. Recently I had to purchase another menstrual cup when I was traveling and forgot to pack my Diva Cup. I got this Luna Cup and I have to say I actually like it a little better than the Diva Cup.

I should also put in my personal plug for menstrual cups in general. I’ll admit, when I first found out about them, I thought they were odd and couldn’t imagine using one. Now, I can’t imagine not using one. I’ve worn them overnight, on international flights, while scuba diving, while hiking 20+ miles, and in many other unusual situations. I have never had a leak or a problem and it has never been uncomfortable. Really.

In fact, since my periods are pretty light, I only have to dump the cup once a day, which is super convenient. In many ways, I don’t even notice being on my period now as I can go from gym to swimming to bed without having to change anything.

The first couple of uses it does take a little getting used to, but after that, it really is easier. Give them a try if you haven’t already!

Tips for Using a Menstrual Cup

How to use a menstrual cup like the diva cupHere’s the cheat sheet I wish I’d had on how to use a menstrual cup without the learning curve:

  1. Fold it first. There are dozens of ways to fold a menstrual cup to make it easier to insert. I squeeze mine in half and then fold it into a “C” shape so it easily pops back open once inserted.
  2. Insert like a tampon. Insert the folded cup like a tampon, angling it to the back of the spine. Make sure it fully unfolds to create a light suction. This suction keeps it from leaking. Check this by running your finger along the side to make sure it has unfolded completely. Pull down slightly if needed to make it more comfortable.
  3. Learn how long. How long you can wear a cup depends on how heavy your cycle is. The good news is that many women find their cycles get lighter and easier when they start using a cup. Like I said, I can wear mine for 24 hours, but the average seems to be about 12.
  4. Remove, clean and reuse. Wash your hands really well and pull down on the stem of the menstrual cup to release it. Once you’ve pulled it down slightly, gently push on one side to release the suction and carefully remove. Empty into the toilet and wash well with warm water before reinserting.
  5. When in doubt, turn inside out. This is a tip I learned from my midwife. If it is uncomfortable or you have trouble with leaks, turn the cup inside out. It works like a charm, and is really comfortable this way. It is slightly harder to remove, so just use your pelvic floor muscles to gently push it down to remove it.

Cloth Menstrual Pads

If a menstrual cup is not your thing, there are also a lot of options for cloth menstrual pads. These are more comfortable than plastic based pads! They have a waterproof liner so they don’t leak through clothes and are washable so they are eco-friendly too.

My favorites are these handmade cloth menstrual pads from a local family-owned business  (they can ship them worldwide!). They’re handmade by busy midwives and are great cloth pads that have lasted me for years and years!

Organic Menstrual Pads

If the idea of a menstrual cup or cloth pads isn’t your thing, it is possible to find organic disposable tampons or disposable pads so you can at least avoid the chemicals in the conventional versions.

Sea Sponge Tampons

Another great completely natural option is Sea Sponge tampons. They work similarly to a Diva Cup and collect flow. When removed, they can be easily rinsed out a re-used. These are the ones I’ve tried. I personally found them less comfortable than cloth pads or a cup though.

Natural Period Pain Relief

Tylenol and other acetaminophen-based pain relief options are chemically based and emerging research is finding that they are toxic to your mitochondria (you need those little guys!). Luckily, there are a lot of natural options out that, and you can also address the underlying problem and not just mask the pain.

  • Vitex – A fertility aid that also helps ease menstrual cramps by balancing hormones. It is also used by herbalists for increasing fertility, though it should be discontinued when a woman becomes pregnant. When not pregnant, it can be taken daily in capsule form or tincture form. For a full explanation of vitex and its benefits, see this post.
  • Red Clover – Another herb that is supportive of menstrual health and function. It has been known to ease endometriosis and PCOS and is helpful for cramps. It should also be discontinued when a woman becomes pregnant. When not pregnant, it can be taken daily. I’ve tried this brand.
  • Progesterone Cream – A natural progesterone cream is perhaps the best remedy, long-term for many menstrual problems. I’ve had many clients conceive by adding progesterone to their regimen, and it also helps ease cramps. Many menstrual problems can be caused or exacerbated by too much estrogen in the body, and progesterone helps balance it out. If used, it should only be used in the second half of the cycle (ovulation until start of the period) and applied to the skin of fatty areas of the body like the thighs, buttocks, stomach, breasts and upper arms. I’ve used this brand in the past but recently switched to this one on Dr. Anna Cabeca’s recommendation in this podcast.
  • Magnesium – Taking magnesium regularly may also really help ease cramps (and there are a lot of other benefits to taking magnesium too!) My favorite brand by far is this time-release formula. Read more about magnesium in this post.
  • Homeopathy – Our medical reviewer Dr. Madiha recommends a homeopathic product called Cyclease and uses it herself. If you’re curious, I wrote a whole post about homeopathetic remedies here.

This article was medically reviewed by Madiha Saeed, MD, a board certified family physician. As always, this is not personal medical advice and we recommend that you talk with your doctor.

This article was medically reviewed by Dr. Betsy Greenleaf, an ON/GYN and board certified urogynecologist. As always, this is not personal medical advice and we recommend that you talk with your doctor.

Do you have any natural tips for dealing with feminine health? Ever used any of the suggestions above? Please let me know below!

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About Katie Wells

Katie Wells, CTNC, MCHC, Founder of Wellness Mama and Co-founder of Wellnesse, has a background in research, journalism, and nutrition. As a mom of six, she turned to research and took health into her own hands to find answers to her health problems. WellnessMama.com is the culmination of her thousands of hours of research and all posts are medically reviewed and verified by the Wellness Mama research team. Katie is also the author of the bestselling books The Wellness Mama Cookbook and The Wellness Mama 5-Step Lifestyle Detox.

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262 responses to “Menstrual Cup: How to Use One for a Healthy, Eco-Friendly Period”

  1. resma Avatar

    Oddly enough, for cramping, nothing works so effectively and instantly as smoking catnip. Seriously! I had thought it was just a treat for my kitty, but as soon as I exhale it, the pain + ickiness lessened a lot. Once the edge is taken off with the first inhalation, I like to visualize the tension/’bad energy’ leave my body as I exhale … quite centering. (:

    If your local health food store has a bulk herb section, it should be there; I recommend picking up a bit of mullein to add to it, to make it easier to smoke. [A teeny bit of lavender, if you’re in an indulgent mood.] I ran out of dried catnip this cycle, and out of utter desperation, ate a leaf from the plant in my garden; it helped, but I find smoking way more effective … not to mention, more pleasant!

    One thing I’ve been meaning to do again is to fill a small pillowcase with rice (& sew or even knot it up). When heated up, it makes the cheapest + most effective heating pad. Even with my cramps taken care of with herbs/magnesium, I find the warmth so deeply soothing, when I shower I end up ‘accidently’ wasting ungodly amounts of time and hot water. Hopefully I’ll remember to make this rice-cozy before my next cycle!

  2. Elisa Avatar

    I am love the Diva Cup!! I have been using it for just over 1 year and my only regret is that I didn’t know about it sooner. It is extremely easy to use, and the directions even give a couple examples for different ways to insert it so, everyone can find the easiest way for themselves.

    I found out about if from a friend, and have been using it since.

    I would like to highlight a couple benefits that were not my initial reason for my purchase of this product.

    The length that it can be left in is a huge plus. I used to struggle with finding the right night pad and panties to keep leaks from happening (always had issues with leaks). Since it can be left in for more than 8 hours, I now wear it to bed after cleaning it out in the shower from the day use. No more night pads! Additionally, it keeps the blood from spreading onto the sensitive skin in that area.
    It works great for swimming -no chemicals in, and no blood out!

    It really works to keep leaks from happening, so I rarely need a panty liner like I did when I used tampons.
    The other nice thing about not having to worry about toxic shock, is because you aren’t changing it that frequently you no longer need to worry about getting blood on your hands/everywhere else in a public bathroom!
    And to finish, yes, I have saved soo much money since switching to this product!
    I would recommend this to every woman!!

  3. Magan Skinner Avatar
    Magan Skinner

    I love both the diva cup and my mama cloth. They’re so simple and make me feel so much better that I’m doing my part.

  4. Amanda Avatar

    are all the natural pain relief options safe to use while breastfeeding? i’m the 5% of women who get their menstrual cycle while breastfeeding, ugh.

  5. samiC Avatar

    I love my DivaCup. I was introduced to it years ago from a backpacking friend. At first I still had to use tampons on heavy days as I was cleaning out the cup every 1/2hr. After switching to a holistic doctor and starting iron, magnesium and vitex (chasteberry) supplements, my cycles are normal enough that I can use the DivaCup for my entire cycle. For backpacking I dig a cathole to empty contents, rinse and clean, and bear bag it when not in use.

  6. Carol Petersen Avatar
    Carol Petersen

    I’ve been using cloth pads for 7 months now, and I love them!!! The mild to severe cramping I’ve had on the first day or so is GONE and it’s so much better for the world, and me! I’ve been wanting to try a diva cup, and will, eventually…

  7. lili Avatar

    I got the DivaCup. Unfortunately I bleed a ridiculous amount, so I have to pair it with cloth pads as well for the first few days. I got the fuzzibunz brand and LOVE them! I like that I don’t have to go shopping for anything every month and that I don’t stain anything anymore. Even with the Instead cups I stained myself terribly a few times at work so I switched to the reusable Diva. I have noticed, too that I have way less cramps and have been at it with the Diva cup/cloth pads for about 5 months now.

  8. Rose Avatar

    I used a Diva cup. I got the bigger one, because I had already had my first baby. It was too big and uncomfortable, so I got the smaller one. It was also too big and uncomfortable. I tried using it again after my second baby, and found it was still too big and uncomfortable. Wound up going back to regular pads, but have been told that there are other kinds of menstrual cups out there and they are not all created equal. I don’t have the money to buy and test any of them, so for right now I’m still using conventional products. Hopefully soon, though, I’ll be able to change that.

  9. Victoria Meyers Avatar
    Victoria Meyers

    I had a Diva cup and it never did fit just right, I kept trimming and trimming, and trimming! But I still preferred it to pads and tampons, which I also have trouble with. I used it with cloth pads that I make myself. Warning however, I dropped mine in the toilet while removing it, it was a nasty mess to reach in after it, but I could not catch it. It was like it was alive and running away from me and it finally went too far out of reach down the pipe. Then the same thing happened to my daughter’s diva cup just a couple months later! Funny I don’t see anybody complaining of anything like that! I want to get another but the cost is high…

  10. Chelsea Pickard Avatar
    Chelsea Pickard

    Ok, I tried to read through the comments to see if anyone had already answered my question, and didn’t see it, so here goes: I tried the NuvaRing a couple years ago (a birth control method in the form of a monthly insert that looks like a jelly bracelet,) and it caused chronic UTI’s that led to other bladder issues that are just now going away. I understand that you wash the cups between uses, but, like another woman said below, my body is just very, very sensitive, so I would even have to be careful of how I wash my cup should I choose to buy one. I also understand that you don’t use the cup for as many days consecutively as something like the NuvaRing, but you use it for a much longer period of time non-consecutively than disposable tampons. My sweet husband went out to buy tampons for me a few months ago, bought the type but not the brand I normally use, and I had a near instant reaction that caused me to have to wear pads for the rest of my period (and seemed to cause issues further into my cycle.) Has anyone had or heard of anyone having an issue with irritation or infection using any of the cups? (I’m doing my research to see which cup I think would work best for me.) I think may be less inclined to keep one cup for a long period of time (more than a year) because of my previous experiences with different inserts. Anyway, I’m just very cautious about feminine hygiene products – thanks!

    1. Wellness Mama Avatar
      Wellness Mama

      I haven’t heard of anyone getting irritation, but maybe try one and see if it works for you, and if you make the switch, get a couple so you can boil/sterilize when you change them…

      1. Erin Avatar

        Hey, Just so you know, I had a reoccurring yeast infection that i realized was perpetuated by my diva cup.

        A cheating boyfriend gave me the first one though.

        As you’re getting accustomed to your diva cup it will potentially sit lower in your body which is not the best because if you’re sensitive, too much friction can set your bacterial cultures on hyperdrive and that sucks hard. So make sure it is allll the way up there.

        If you have a sensitive balance wash hands and cup THOROUGHLY with advertised/ recommended cleaners as well as boiling in a special pot.
        And if you have an infection DO NOT USE YOUR DIVA CUP AGAIN, it’s time for a new one.

        I went back to using OB because it was going to be too expensive to keep dropping 40$ on a new cup every time a boy decides to search for greener pastures

  11. Rita Avatar

    Love, Love, Love it!! I will NEVER switch back. I’ve been using a Diva Cup for 6 years. I don’t cramp as bad and I don’t need to change as often. It does take a few cycles to get confident in the changing process and the product itself. I’ve only had one leakage problem (it was full) when I first started using it. I was happy to have had a light day on that day. Once you learn how your body flows, it’s worth the change.

  12. sarah Avatar

    I like the cloth menstrual pads. I really wanted to like the Diva cup but I had so many problems with it. I am 30 and have given birth to a child so I ordered model 2 but it was so big I couldn’t fit it in my vagina. I then tried model 1 and it was still rather large, but I was able to fit it. I had a lot of pain removing the cup because it was so large. It made me really sore. And then, after using it for a few days, I contracted a yeast infection despite washing it carefully after each use. I love the idea of using something reusable like the Diva cup, and I was looking forward to saving money on tampons, but it just didn’t work. I don’t recommend it. 🙁

  13. Nurta Avatar

    Love my Diva Cup or Keeper with cloth pantiliner back up. I take cramp bark tincture for cramps, although they’re much less than they were when I used tampons. I also try to drink red clover, red raspberry leaf, nettle infusions throughout my cycle, at least seven days. The red clover seems to help balance my hormones (as does avoiding too much sugar and getting enough sleep) so that I don’t have spotting a few days before the actual bleeding starts. I don’t mind the heads up but since it’s an indicator of hormone imbalance I figure it’s best to manage it 🙂 The red clover/RRL/nettles infusions are also very high in cal/mag which I’m sure helps with my cramping. I often have very little discomfort and don’t even need the cramp bark for it. Motherwort tincture is also very effective although it tastes awful.

  14. Bonny Sommert Rambarran Avatar
    Bonny Sommert Rambarran

    my daughter uses a diva cup and loves it (don’t need one myself!) I used pregesterone cream for YEARS AND YEARS. It really did help!

  15. Melissa Gingerich Avatar
    Melissa Gingerich

    I love my diva cup. It is cost effective (tampax doesn’t get $5-10 of my money a month anymore). It leaks less (almost never unless you have it in wrong). It is great for swimming. You can almost forget that you have your period. I would never go back. It did take a month or two to get used to, but the freedom it is worth the effort.

  16. Nina Avatar

    I’ve been using my diva cup for over 3 years now and it has never given me problems. I used cloth panty liners for a while with it since there was a learning curve, but I was OK with that. Other things that helped relieve me of my cramps: taking in enough iron, exercising regularly…especially during(!), sleeping a lot and not eating sugar/caffeine. The iron and sugar/caffeine I do during my period to ease cramps, the others I do all the time. An easy way to up regular iron intake is by taking a T of blackstrap molasses every day and drinking an iron rich tea (rasp leaf, nettles, etc), I’ve found.

  17. lauren Avatar

    I have a divacup and its wonderful! It doesn’t interupt the moisture balance down there (I find tampons can do that) and I save soooo much money by not buying pads or tampons!

  18. erin Avatar

    For cramps I’ve been using accupressure. The spot is called spleen six, its located four finger widths above the inner ankle bone. You can just press on it for about 30 seconds each side, or tape a small ball of paper or a grain of rice to it

  19. Lauren Avatar

    I’ve been using a Diva Cup for 3 years and I absolutely love it! It is very comfortable and I only empty it twice a day even on my heaviest days. It takes some getting used to, but it is worth sticking out.

  20. Naomi Haskins Avatar
    Naomi Haskins

    love my diva cup & mama cloth… There is a definate learning curve, so thank goodness for you tube videos to learn different folds… Watching insertion with a vase was super helpful!

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