Natural Hair Detangling Spray (You Can Make at Home)

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As the mother of daughters with long hair, I know the battle of the brush all too well. At certain times my daughters have had hair down to their waists, and their hair tends to be thick and wavy. To make matters more difficult, they are the most tender-headed children alive. How do we make it work? Only with a good detangling spray!

Homemade Detangling Spray for Hair (No Tears, No Fears)

As documented in the picture below and in my homemade natural shampoo post, my girls have had long, thick, wavy hair at various points over the years. (Some have even suggested I put hair extensions in their hair for these pictures. Nope, she was three!)

I’ve had to use detangling spray on my oldest daughter since she was a few months old. (She was born with about two inches of hair!) We’ve found a couple of special brushes that really help (especially this one and this one) but they still weren’t enough to convince my daughter not to be afraid of brushing her beautiful hair.

I never liked that most store-bought detangling sprays contain a lot of chemicals, especially since I would need to use it daily on my young kids. At least at the time I started tinkering with this recipe, there were very few natural store-bought alternatives, so I started making my own with just conditioner and water.

Homemade natural spray detangler recipeThis simple combo works pretty well, but I later came across a post on Frugally Sustainable about how she uses marshmallow root in her homemade hair detangling spray. Conveniently, I already had marshmallow root on hand for making our homemade marshmallows. (This is my marshmallow root source.)

The new and improved formula transformed our daily routine. She loved the fresh but light scent and how soft it made her hair (not to mention how much pain it saved her), so she even started using it herself.

And I could save my energy for other more important battles!

What I Did

The recipe continued to evolve for a while as I tried different things from my arsenal of natural ingredients to find the best result. I tried chamomile (known to lighten hair) and nettle (known to help hair growth).

I always feel like it’s a win when I figure out how to make something at home from ingredients I already have and can cross one more thing off my shopping list. There are just 3 essential ingredients (and a few optional ones) in this recipe. Add to a spray bottle, shake, and you’re good to go.

What I Used

This recipe does require the addition of a healthy store-bought conditioner with mostly natural, safe ingredients. (I’ve listed a few that have worked for me below.) Thankfully, there are a lot of reputable companies now that avoid the parabens, preservatives, and heavy fragrances commonly found in store-bought beauty products.

To make this detangling spray, I use distilled water, marshmallow root, conditioner and optional essential oils. Any conditioner will work, but I prefer a natural one, especially for kids. Natural conditioner are more expensive, but with as little as you need for this recipe, one bottle lasts over a year for all three of my daughters.

The top natural brands that I’ve tried that smell good, work well, and don’t have harmful ingredients are:

  1. Shea Moisture Organic Restorative Conditioner (I love all of their products)
  2. Max Green Alchemy Scalp Rescue Conditioner (more earthy/tea tree scent but organic and works really well)
  3. Acure Organics Moroccan Argan Oil Conditioner (light and fresh scent)

I used a glass spray bottle I got during a Zulily sale, but I’ve also used this spray bottle from Amazon and the sprayer actually works better for this.

How It Worked

This detangling spray leaves hair shiny, clean, and smelling fresh. It doesn’t leave hair (even fine kids’ hair) weighed down or oily. In the picture above, I sprayed my daughter’s damp hair with the detangling spray after a shower and let it air dry.

DIY Hair Detangling Spray
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Hair Detangling Spray Recipe

This DIY hair detangling spray is natural, inexpensive, and easy to make.
Prep Time30 minutes
Yield: 1 cups
Author: Katie Wells

Materials

Instructions

  • In a small pan, bring the water and marshmallow root to a boil.
  • Reduce heat and simmer for 20-30 minutes.
  • Cool slightly and strain through a cheesecloth or very thin wire strainer.
  • While still warm, pour the marshmallow infused water into a glass spray bottle.
  • Add the conditioner and essential oils, if using.
  • Shake until mixed.
  • Store for up to 2 months (this is as long as I’ve tested).

Notes

I really like these kid-safe essential oil blends when creating products for children, as it takes the guesswork out of safe essential oil use.

Do you use detangling spray? Ever made your own? Share below!

This homemade hair detangling spray is simple to make, chemical free and saves money over store bought versions. The secret ingredient is marshmallow root!

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About Katie Wells

Katie Wells, CTNC, MCHC, Founder of Wellness Mama and Co-founder of Wellnesse, has a background in research, journalism, and nutrition. As a mom of six, she turned to research and took health into her own hands to find answers to her health problems. WellnessMama.com is the culmination of her thousands of hours of research and all posts are medically reviewed and verified by the Wellness Mama research team. Katie is also the author of the bestselling books The Wellness Mama Cookbook and The Wellness Mama 5-Step Lifestyle Detox.

Comments

162 responses to “Natural Hair Detangling Spray (You Can Make at Home)”

  1. Lexi Avatar

    Hi Katie! I used this recipe for a year or so, almost daily on my daughters, then started using it on myself as well and KNOW it makes a huge difference! Over having a baby I didn’t make it for a while and now the last several times I have made it, it smells really sweet almost fermented within a day or shortly after, and turns dark. I follow your recipe with the EO conditioner and add 3 Tbls of nettle to the marshmallow pot… any ideas why it is going bad? Is it the nettle, and if so, are there any solutions? We LOVE this product and all miss it lot!!! Anyways thanks for all your great ideas and recipes!!!

  2. Melissa Avatar

    Which essential oils could I add as a head lice deterrent? If tea tree do you find it drying?

  3. Kay Avatar

    Bummed this did not seem any different than what I normally use. ( water, conditioner or almond oil, essential oils) daughter’s hair is thick but fine and curly. Still on the search for help with her hair.

  4. Kelli Avatar

    All 4 of the “top natural conditioners” listed above have Behentrimonium Chloride as the conditioning agent, which also happens to be the emulsifier. This ingredient is not something I would consider natural. Look it up on EWG and also Truth in Aging.
    One of them lists Honeysuckle Extract as the preservative. This could provide decent preservative qualities to an appropriate formulas if used at high enough amounts…….(i.e. you’d have to use a whole lot) Also of note: it is a Paraben by nature so for those of you trying to avoid Parabens I would not recommend this ingredient.
    One of them lists Sodium benzoate as part of the preservative. This is not a bad ingredient at all……….as long as it is not combined in any formula with any type of Vitamin C or derivative of Vitamin C. Most formulations contain Citric Acid, as it is a pH adjuster and is necessary to bring the pH of a formula down to the appropriate level. Our skin and hair prefer a slightly acidic environment. What can happen when Sodium Benzoate is used with any of these C derivatives? It can convert to Benzene. You can look Sodium Benzoate up on Truth In Aging, paying close attention to the Safety Measures/ Side Effects area of the description, and EWG did not score it very well either.

    These conditioners claim to be natural and one even says 100% natural origin and no synthetic ingredients, yet they ALL contain synthetic ingredients. That doesn’t mean synthetic ingredients are bad. At least, not all of them. They make formulating emulsions possible. They are a necessary and required part of the chemistry process when making formulations.

  5. Kelly Avatar

    I just ordered nettle leaf tea bags and marshmallow root tea bags from Amazon, thinking they will be easier to work with? Both are 100% organic and were Prime items so no additional shipping charges if you are a member. Hoping this works just as well!! Thoughts?

  6. Clara Harris Avatar
    Clara Harris

    Could this be used on “static head?” My granddaughters are wearing hats since it is January and they have “static head” when the hats come off.

  7. MarieS Avatar

    Cheryl, your routine sounds really interesting. You mention using ACV after shampooing, also ACV with coconut oil and henna. You’d have to be doing that part prior to hair wash. Can you provide any additional information?

  8. Cheryl Avatar

    I have been growing my hair out for a number of years, and here is a couple tips from female friends that also keep their hair long. One is NEVER brush hair when it is wet. Use a wide tooth comb starting from the bottom and working your way up to remove tangles. The wide tooth comb works so well for me, that I have stopped using a brush. The second was to use apple cider vinegar, put it in a spray bottle and apply it after shampooing to your scalp and work through your hair. It smooths the cuticle so there are less tangles to start. I have my guy mix the apple cider vinegar and coconut oil with henna when he applies it for me. It deep conditions, softens and leaves it quite shiny. My boyfriend has found that when he trims my hair every couple months to remove splits and keep my ends even, that I have fewer splits since using the henna mix. Henna comes in multiple colors, and even conditioning only adding no color. My hair is to my elbows, so less tangles make my hair routine easier. I also have my guy braid my hair before bed, when we go out on the motorcycle or out for a hike. A quick French braid looks great and prevents tangles.

  9. Mary Avatar

    Please forgive me it this has been asked before, but I chose not to read all two years worth of comments: I purchased the marshmallow root that you recommended and it arrived with a warning sticker on it re: birth defects and reproductive harm!! Mountain Rose Herbs’ website has nothing mentioned beyond consulting a doctor if pregnant or nursing. While I am not particularly concerned about myself, I use this on my 7 year old daughter…thoughts?

  10. Heidi Avatar

    Cani use this detangling spay when brushing my dog who has thick, long hair?

  11. Audrey lohan Avatar
    Audrey lohan

    This is the best way to keep our hair smooth,silky,shiny.I don’t like the so called “natural/organic hair products”.Because these are detrimental for our hair.I like to use homemade shmapoo/conditioner.Thanks for sharing with us .

  12. Beverly Avatar

    I was wondering if instead of a glass spray bottle if the aluminum ones hairdressers use would be okay to use

  13. Beverly Avatar

    Was wondering if there was a gel version. Sprayers break easily. Anyone know of a way to thicken the recipe?

  14. Ami Avatar

    Hi Kate,
    I am wondering when u add nettle to ur recipe do u store it in the fridge or keep it at room temperature? I looked up how to infuse nettle & everything ive read said it needs to be refrigerated except nettle oil.
    Im hoping it doesn’t have to be refrigerated, if it does would u suggest using nettle oil instead since i want to store it at room temperature? Thank you for your time! I love ur articles!

  15. Mary Avatar

    3 stars
    I was blown away by this recipe and couldn’t wait to try it. I think I may have diluted it too much. After boiling I added water back in to equal a cup, also added a few drops of oil and the Shea conditioner. It’s somewhat helpful at de-tangling but kind of makes my hair oily. The protein spray recipe I got from this site seems to work better. It also does a beautiful job of bringing out the curl and making my hair shiny. The Shea conditioner works really well too. I’m going to try making this again but with more marshmallow and leave out the oil.

  16. PE Straley Avatar
    PE Straley

    5 stars
    I modified your recipe & although not expecting it to work (as all the store-bought de-tanglers for my 3 yo granddaughter & my own 3′ long white hair are disappointments), I was pleasantly surprised with the results. I have been making herbal products at home for 45 years so had the chunks of marshmallow root. I didn’t have a spray bottle but collect brown bottles for medicinals so used a 15 oz. Worcestershire sauce bottle with plastic ‘sprinkler’ in the opening. Sprinkle into hands, rub & apply to dry hair (although I’m sure it would be easier on wet hair. I need it in the morning after I get up & have bed-head). I would have preferred a spray bottle, but this does work. My recipe follows:
    *follow same instructions for boiling down Marshmallow root (made about 1/2 cup), pour into bottle
    -1 Tablespoon oil (olive, I used avocado, but anything in your cupboard will work) instead of thick conditioner
    -10 drops essential oil (peppermint is nice, any flower scent as well)
    -fill the remainder of the container with Aloe Vera (juice, not pulp), also a known hair protector
    *Write SKAKE WELL along with De-tangler on the bottle as the oil separates & must be homogenized before using. There is no ‘feel’ to this after it dries. Also doesn’t leave hair ‘oily’ either. Doesn’t pull the curls out & definitely controlled the frizzies while brushing after having my hair down all day at the fair & in the wind so hair was really a mess this morning.
    Wellness Mama: Thank you for taking the time to help all of us that found your web site! My bathroom counter will always have a bottle of this on it from now on. -Wrinkled Radical

  17. Kira Avatar

    Hi Katie!

    I would love to try out this detangling spray but the conditioners you list are expensive. Do you think it would be possible to use homemade conditioner from one of your recipies for this instead of the store bought options?

    Thanks!
    K

  18. Sandra Lindow Avatar
    Sandra Lindow

    I did everything as instructed, but the end result color is a copper color. Is that right?

    1. Sandra Lindow Avatar
      Sandra Lindow

      Jk! I was skeptical to add my conditioner thinking my solution was done wrong (because of the color) but I added my conditioner and what do ya know, it’s not orange anymore! Lol

  19. Robyn Avatar

    I saw the question asked by someone else but did not see a response. Is there a big difference in using the marshmallow leaves instead of the root? Has anyone tried yet?

    Thanks in advance. THANKYOU WM for all you do. Can you write a book please? I spend so much time at the computer now going through your website. 🙂

  20. Katie Avatar

    Thank you for sharing this! It’s always a struggle brushing my two little girls’ hair! Believe it or not, after many, many hairbrush tests, a pet brush( yes, pet brush!) from the dollar store works wonders! It has a good grip handle, but softer wire- like bristles. Think about it- pets have matted, thick hair! It’s the only brush that my girls will let me use, and it easily brushes through the knots.

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