How to Use Lavender (Grow It, Make Natural Remedies & More)

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It only takes a brief scroll through my home remedies and DIY recipes to know that lavender is by far one of my favorite herbs. Not only is is beautiful and fragrant in the garden, it has hundreds of uses (literally). It’s the constant staple in my essential oil stash and I use it just about daily in one way or another.

Lavender’s claim to fame is its ability to enhance relaxation and promote restful sleep. Best of all, unlike some essential oils that require a lot of caution, lavender falls on the safer side of the spectrum, making it a great choice to use around babies and kids. A natural remedy that helps my kids stay calm and get to sleep? Um, yes please!

Let’s see what else it can do …

Lavender: The Little Purple Flower With Power

Turns out there’s good reason (many good reasons) why lavender is a crunchy mama’s right hand helper in the home.

Originating from southern Europe and parts of Africa, Asia, and India, many ancient and medieval cultures relied on the herb not just for its signature scent but also its pain relieving and sedative properties.

Thanks to its linalool and linalyl acetate components (which are present even when diffusing), lavender has protective effects shown to:

  • Stabilize mood
  • Improve sleep
  • Soothe nerves
  • Work as an expectorant
  • Balance blood sugar
  • Kill bacteria
  • Relieve pain
  • Speed wound healing

Proven Benefits of Lavender

Here’s why the little purple flower packs such a powerful punch:

Lavender for Better Sleep

There’s a reason lavender is used in so many of my DIY creations. It is well known for its ability to relax the mind and improve quality of sleep. In one 2006 study, sleep-deprived college students inhaled either lavender or a placebo. Those who used lavender slept more soundly and felt more refreshed upon waking up.

More study is needed to determine whether it is safe to use during breastfeeding (it’s generally not recommended at this time), but it’s exciting to see emerging research on how lavender might help women during the crucial postpartum time. Improving postpartum sleep (or what little we mothers get anyway) sounds like a worthy cause to me!

Lavender for Anxiety and Depression

On a similar note, many studies show interesting applications for lavender for memory, mood, and overall cognitive function. Just the odor of lavender seemed to help various test groups stay relaxed and focused when asked to do various stressful tasks, or improved their ability to recover feelings of wellbeing after exposure to stress.

Researchers continue to examine the possibilities for lavender in the treatment of dementia, anxiety, depression, and various neurological disorders.

(I don’t know if those symptoms bring this to mind for anyone else… but lavender’s soothing effects also make it great for managing PMS!)

Lavender for Skin Care

Due to its anti-inflammatory effects and ability to scavenge free radicals, lavender has a place in skin care. As is so common in the health world, controversy surrounds the subject of whether it is a skin irritant or a skin protectant, but this article by Robert Tisserand explains the reasons why its benefits outweigh any risks. (Risks are slight, in his informed opinion).

Give lavender a try in your DIY beauty routine. Use a quality oil (I like Plant Therapy) and the proper dilution for skin. If there’s any concern about sensitive skin, try a test run on a small spot in the inner elbow.

Lavender for First Aid and Wound Healing

Studies (and much anecdotal experience) show that lavender reduces pain and itching from bug bites, bee stings, and even burns. In fact one 2011 study examined the benefits of lavender in healing episiotomies and another 2013 study showed lavender aromatherapy relieved pain after c-section.

Lavender for Hair Growth

A 2016 study on mice showed lavender is an effective proponent of hair growth and significantly increased the number and health of hair follicles when applied in proper dilution daily for a period of 4 weeks. The properties make it great for healthy, shiny hair in general. (Recipes for these treatments below.)

How to Use Lavender at Home

I use lavender in just about every area of my home. I keep both the dried herb and the essential oil around because they’re needed for different preparations.

While the options to use it are just about endless, here are a few of my favorite uses:

Dried Herb Uses:

  • In a relaxing herbal tea – Lavender is too strong to be used by itself as a tea, but mixed with mint leaves it makes a soothing herbal tea. I often add chamomile too. Steep all in hot (not boiling water) for a few minutes and add honey if desired. Ahhh…
  • As a dandruff remedy – Make an extra strong batch of tea, let it cool, and use as a scalp rinse to remedy dandruff. This cooled tea recipe also doubles as an after-sun spray.
  • In a tincture – Used for medicinal purposes since ancient times, a lavender tincture can promote relaxation and sleep.
  • Inside a pillow or mask – Add the dried flowers to homemade buckwheat pillows or sleep masks to help promote relaxing sleep.
  • As a laundry or drawer freshener – I sew the dried flowers into small satchels and use them in place of dryer sheets in the dryer. (Great project for kids!)
  • For infused vinegarInfuse vinegar with the dried flowers for use in cooking or as a skin toner (diluted).
  • As an air freshener – Simmer the dried herb in a pot of water with some citrus peels for a natural air freshener!
  • As a face scrub – The dried flowers and oatmeal makes for a gentle, fragrant face scrub.
  • In cooking! – It’s not so strange! Lavender flowers actually feature in this classic herbes de Provence spice blend.

Essential Oil Uses:

  • Diffusing before bed – Put a few drops in an essential oil diffuser before bed to help the house wind down and get ready to sleep
  • To sooth sunburns or other burns – My absolute favorite burn remedy is this lavender honey burn salve. In a pinch, add a few drops of the essential oil to a bottle of cool water and spray on burns to offer relief.
  • In the bath – These DIY lavender-mint bath salts are divine after a long day and will help relax sore muscles.
  • For headaches – Smelling lavender and peppermint oils helps headaches. Simply take a whiff of essential oil or keep this headache relief roll-on handy.
  • In homemade bug spray – It is an essential ingredient in my DIY natural bug spray. (It works, I promise!)
  • In beauty recipes – Add a few drops of the essential oil make a relaxing homemade lotion or lotion bar, or even a whipped body butter.
  • For acne and skin irritations – I like to add a few drops of lavender and frankincense essential oils to my honey face mask and cleanser recipe.
  • In a hair growth serum – As mentioned above, I include lavender in my hair growth serum, especially great for that fun time of postpartum hair loss.

Either Dried or EO:

  • Salt Ear Infection Remedy – This hot pack is easy to make and such a lifesaver when an earache strikes!

Where to Buy Lavender (& How to Grow It)

My sources have varied over the years, but right now I like this source for the dried herb and this one for the essential oil. Of course the nice part is, you don’t have to buy lavender to have it around. It’s easy to grow in your own backyard and a cinch to maintain and harvest.

Since it’s pretty easy on the eyes (and the nose) as well, it’s a win-win!

Given its native regions, lavender grows best where the winter is mild and the summers are hot and dry, but it’s a forgiving plant. Visit a local nursery to find the variety best suited for your area. (Keep in mind different varieties have different blooming seasons, too.)

Lavender generally needs little water or fertilization and even grows well in pots. It’s important though that it is located in a sunny spot (6+ hours) and have good drainage. (In fact, add gravel to the potting soil if potting.)

Our plants have done well for years with little care or maintenance other than pruning them back each fall. I recommend picking a sunny spot by a walkway or door to enjoy its amazing scent every time you walk by!

Here is a detailed helpful post about when and how to harvest lavender flowers.

Is Lavender Essential Oil Safe?

Although natural, essential oils are extremely powerful and need to be respected. I personally do not use any essential oils internally (here’s why). There is some evidence that long term regular use of concentrated lavender can cause hormone imbalance in males, so I generally avoid it in things I am making for my husband or sons. I don’t use even the dried or fresh herb internally when pregnant.

Due to its relaxing properties, I would not use in conjunction with any medication that also causes relaxation or sleepiness.

Using Lavender Around Kids

Using essential oils around children definitely calls for some caution and care. I’ve had many reputable doctors and aromatherapists assure me that lavender is one of the safest oils to use around babies and kids, but there is still a right and wrong way to do it.

Plant Therapy’s Kid-Safe oils are a great way to take the guesswork out of selecting essential oils, and their website and blog are my go-to these days for essential oil information since they are backed by Robert Tisserand, one of the world’s leading experts in aromatherapy.

This article was medically reviewed by Jessica Meyers, MPAP, PA-C, RH(AHG), who specializes in herbal protocols and functional medicine. You can also find Jessica on Instagram. As always, this is not personal medical advice and we recommend that you talk with your doctor.

Do you use lavender? What is your favorite way to use it? Share below!

Uses and Benefits of Lavender- many ways to use this beautiful herb

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About Katie Wells

Katie Wells, CTNC, MCHC, Founder of Wellness Mama and Co-founder of Wellnesse, has a background in research, journalism, and nutrition. As a mom of six, she turned to research and took health into her own hands to find answers to her health problems. WellnessMama.com is the culmination of her thousands of hours of research and all posts are medically reviewed and verified by the Wellness Mama research team. Katie is also the author of the bestselling books The Wellness Mama Cookbook and The Wellness Mama 5-Step Lifestyle Detox.

Comments

56 responses to “How to Use Lavender (Grow It, Make Natural Remedies & More)”

  1. Tamara Avatar

    I want to add that Lavender (essential oil) is EXCELLENT on bee stings and ant bites. I have no experience using it with other insect bites, but have personally used lavender oil in the aforementioned conditions with amazing relief. With the bee sting, I applied it immediately after the bee stung me. The pain was instantly gone, and the swelling at the site never progressed. Then I shared it with someone who had severe fire ant bites on her legs. Amazingly, she found relief when nothing else had worked for her!!

  2. Colleen Avatar

    I know you mentioned to not add lavender to my soaps, lotions and shampoos for my boys but to add citrus… Will using citrus make them sun-sensitive? What would be another good oil for boys? Thanks!

  3. Mendeler Avatar

    Lavender is only for ladies or what because though I am man I love lavender

  4. Dan Avatar

    I use the flowers for tea or add them in a tub of hot water with other relaxing bath herbs. For the essential oil i use both spike and Bulgarian lavender. Spike lavender is stimulating while regular lavender is relaxing. I have used lavender oil for burns, cuts, relaxing baths, clay facial scrubs, facial toners, and moisterizers, bed linen sprays, and all purpose cleaners. There are too many things you can do with it. That is why it is considered one of the most used oils.

  5. Catherine Avatar
    Catherine

    Personally, I have tried Lavander, its highly soothing and relaxing. Rub it on your forehead, shoulder, back of the Neck, Under your feet, and say bye-bye to stress.

  6. Aubrey Avatar

    I have lavender in my garden and have been drying flowers in my kitchen. As I have been shaking the seeds out, my whole house smells incredible and my hands have absorbed the fragrance. If you want a few seeds let me know. Growing lavender is easy and I love the flowers. I too had abandonment issues as a young woman and it is strange that I now have a healthy relationship with my dad and now love lavender. Strange coincidence? I tend to get overly stressed, anxious, and get blue moods. Lavender is my new best friend !

    1. Leah Hamby Avatar
      Leah Hamby

      Do you think it was the scent without any more interventions/treatments that have helped resolve your abandonment issues?

    2. Zahn Avatar

      Hi, I would love some lavender seeds. I purchased plants from Home Depot and had to take them back because they died shortly after planting them. How would I get them without placing all my info on this site. I have not had good experiences with this. Thanks

      1. Aubrey Steedman Avatar
        Aubrey Steedman

        It’s too bad you returned the seeds. If they sprouted then the seeds were probably good. The hard part of getting lavender and rosemary to grow is germination. I plant seeds on top of the soil inside a plastic container without drainage holes, mist, seal with a lid and place by a window. Misting whenever it does not look humid inside. Once sprouted and the plants are as tall as the lid, remove the lid and mist whenever soil is dry. As the plants get bigger, water less. When about an inch tall, transplant each one into its own small pot and water from below if possible. When the plant is several inches tall, over 6 inches, plant outside in the spring or transplant into a larger pot to keep near a sunny window.

  7. neafy Avatar

    I take Calm Aid which is a lavender based softgel. It causes awful lavender flavored burp.
    Any suggestions on what to do to stop them?

  8. Shirley Avatar
    Shirley

    I LOVE lavender. Lavender lemonade is wonderful…also lemon bars with lavender. I just made a batch of pear nectar/lavender kombucha. It’s different….not distasteful. Will I make it again? I think next time I will try a less-aged kombucha with lavender and lemon juice. That combo rocks! Thanks for the info on here. I just wanted confirmation that its safe to consume on a regular basis.

  9. Nas Avatar

    Should I be concerned about the store bought lavender baby wash and lavender lotions we use on our grandson every evening????

    1. Leah Hamby Avatar
      Leah Hamby

      I would be concerned about almost all bought baby skin products. Nearly all of them have nasty chemicals in them. It is very easy to make your own. Dr Bronners makes a baby soap as well. I use the Dr’s as a main ingredient for shampoo and body wash.

  10. Katie Avatar

    I’m starting my own herb garden and I found out through research that to dry lavender can take 2-4 weeks. So I was wondering if lavender was safe to use in tea without drying it and if not is there a faster way of drying them?

  11. Wendy Avatar

    I had heard of the use of Lavender before but I thought it was like folklore or something and did not really work. If it does work for sleep and depression I really need to try it. I am sold caregiver to my Mother with dementia and could really use some help for myself and her.

    1. donna Avatar

      Bless you Wendy. I was sole caregiver for my mother also from 2008 until she passed away just last July. She too had Alzheimer’s and was 83 when she passed (5 years). During the first six months of 2008 when I had to fly north to court to get guardianship (“custody”) from my brothers who were NOT caring for her properly, I discovered that her Alzheimer’s was so bad she already didn’t know who us kids were most of the time. My thoughts and payers are with you. You are an angel to her whether she or you or loved ones know it or not! Know that you have done and are doing the right thing by caring for the woman who cared for and raised you! If you ever need to vent or just talk, reply to me here and maybe we can “hook up” online. I KNOW how hard it was and feel for you my dear. The worst thing? SHOWERTIME!!! I did learn some tricks though that I would be more than happy to share with you. Donna

  12. Tende Avatar

    Lavender is a the best Essential Oil. I am amazed at how many times it can be over used though. Just 5 drops in the bath is enough to help with sleep issues and depression.

  13. Barry Desmond Avatar
    Barry Desmond

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  14. angelo Avatar

    I adore lavender. Right now I am drinking lavender tea with honey because I woke up with a sore throat. I surround myself with the scent before bedtime. Before retiring at night I scent my unscented hand lotion with a drop of two of essential oil and rub it into my hands and arms. Rebecca, I found your comment about those repelled by the scent of lavender having abandonment issues interesting. One of my nieces who had a largely absent mother does not care for lavender. One of the reasons I love it so is that my mother wore Yardley English Lavender cologne. I was able to find it for awhile, I still have a bottle and a half.

  15. Hannah Avatar

    So do you not even add lavender to your husband’s/son’s shampoos, soaps, or deodorant? Or were you meaning the concern is ONLY when taken internally?

    1. Wellness Mama Avatar
      Wellness Mama

      Mainly internally, but I usually stick to citrus oils for my sons even in skin care…

      1. Elizabeth Schiller Avatar
        Elizabeth Schiller

        I have heard that citrus oils contribute to photosensitivity and shouldn’t be used in skin care products (especially where we gets lots of sun, like TX, where I live). Do you have any other suggestions for EO’s that would be beneficial for baby products for males?

  16. Anthony Aadam Avatar
    Anthony Aadam

    thanks a lot for mentioning so much benefits and also the precautions. i also like lavender but i dont konw enough about it before.

  17. Cantrell Avatar

    After reading about the benefits of lavender I tried some essential oil on a cystic pimple. The morning after the first application it was significantly smaller, the second morning the pain, redness, and swelling were almost completely gone!

  18. Allie Avatar

    I love lavender too. I use it in so much. My husband’s grandmother recently passed away and I couldn’t fly with him but sent him with a bottle of lavender essential oil and EVOO to put on his and his family’s temples to soothe them. (He’s told me it has helped …)

    The precautions you mentioned have piqued my interest. Where can I find more information about this? Is there a certain research article or book you can suggest?

  19. Rebecca Hauptman Cashman Avatar
    Rebecca Hauptman Cashman

    Here is something that I heard about lavender… if you are repelled by the scent of lavender, that means that you have abandonment issues. I don’t know if this is true, I learned it at a Women and Spirituality conference about 5 years ago. The thing is, I really did have abandonment issues, and have let go of them — the past 4 years have really been emotionally and spiritually cleansing for me… and now I don’t mind it at ALL. In fact, it is one of my “go-to” EOs for body butter, face cream and homemade shampoo.

    I do not know how accurate this information is, but I thought it was interesting. When I was a baby my mom died and that same year my dad almost died of an infected tumor in his head. Whenever I would be left with a babysitter I would scream and cry hysterically because I was afraid my dad wouldn’t come home. I did this until I was probably 8 or so (I know!!!! But I tell ya, I had extreme abandonment issues). When I was 5, both my grandparents died, within months of each other. And at that point in my life they were the ones I felt most comfortable with.

    So my experience seemed to be right on with what I learned about lavender.

    1. Leah Hamby Avatar
      Leah Hamby

      Interesting, my husband doesn’t really like the smell and he lost his mother at 5 years old.

  20. Susanne Avatar

    Lavender EO is one of my favorites! I often blend it into a body oil or into a pillow mist for a good night’s sleep.

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