How to Use Fertility Monitors to Space or Avoid Pregnancy

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As many of you know, I’ve had six children in nine years. I’m certainly open to having more children in the future, but I feel like my body would benefit from a break from pregnancy/nursing, especially as I am working to overcome my autoimmune disease and heal my thyroid.

Why Not Hormones?

I’ve written before about why I choose not to use hormonal or artificial contraceptives and what I use instead. I explained in that post:

Hormonal contraceptives are made from artificial hormone-like substances that attempt to mimic the effects of naturally occurring hormones in the body. Hormonal contraceptives work by:

  • suppressing the release of hormones that trigger ovulation;
  • stimulating production of thick cervical mucus, which prevents sperm survival and ability to travel to a ripe egg in the fallopian tube in the event that ovulation does occur;
  • disrupting the ability of the cilia (whip-like cells that line the fallopian tube) to move a fertilized egg toward the uterus in the event that conception does occur;
  • preventing buildup of the uterine lining, and thereby inhibiting implantation of a fertilized egg in the event that one arrives in the uterus.

Personally, the mere possibility that conception could occur and then the fertilized egg could be prevented form implanting is enough to keep me from ever wanting to use hormonal contraceptives.

Problems With the Pill

Artificial hormones like those found in hormonal contraceptives aren’t good for Mom either (or the water supply for that matter).

Sam Epstein, MD and author of The Breast Cancer Prevention Program, explains:

More than 20 well-controlled studies have demonstrated the clear risk of pre-menopausal breast cancer with the use of oral contraceptives. These estimates indicate that a young woman who uses oral contraceptives has up to ten times the risk for developing breast cancer as does a non-user, particularly if she uses the Pill during her teens or early twenties; if she uses the Pill for two years or more; if she uses the Pill before her first full-term pregnancy; if she has a family history of breast cancer.” (emphasis added)

Doing the math, this means a woman who takes the Pill for even just two years before the age of 25 and before she’s had a pregnancy to term increases her risk of breast cancer tenfold.

As I’m not personally a fan of increased cancer risk, and I’m also not a fan of altering my hormones with artificial means. For these reasons I’ve used alternative methods to track my fertility.

How to Test for Fertility

A woman is only cyclically fertile, and within a normal cycle will go from infertile to fertile (for a short window) and back to infertile. Couples who have tried to conceive a child know all too well that there are infertile periods of the month.

Natural methods of achieving or delaying pregnancy depend on knowledge of a woman’s cycle and body to be able to pinpoint the fertile window and use that time accordingly. There are ovulation calculators (and see the other suggestions below) that make this easier to calculate and track based on your specific cycle.

I often hear it said in the health sphere that every body is different and the path to health depends on being able to tune into one’s individual needs. I think this holds especially true when it comes to fertility. So how to listen and know what is going on with your fertility?

Good question!

Natural Family Planning Made Easier

Natural Family Planning or NFP as it is called requires observations of indicators like Basal Body Temperature (BBT), mucus production, cervical position, and other symptoms to predict ovulation. This often means charting these observations to interpret an overall picture of fertility.

You can find a class to teach you how to practice these methods, or there are several apps (this is one of them) that make charting easier. Better yet, there are even computerized devices that connect to these apps and make this process of tracking fertility more accurate and easier to do.

Most fertility monitors are recommended for achieving pregnancy but aren’t labeled for use in avoiding pregnancy or recommended while breastfeeding. I tried to find information on using fertility monitors for these purposes, but there was limited information available.

My Experience Using Fertility Monitors

When given the chance by Fairhaven Health, I decided to test four of these fertility monitors side by side for six months and compare the results to see:

  1. which were the most accurate;
  2. if they could be used during breastfeeding or to delay pregnancy.

The four methods I compared side by side were:

  1. Fertile Focus Ovulation Microscope
  2. iBasal Thermometer
  3. Ovulation Sticks

Plus I charted my fertility using the Sympto-Thermal method of Natural Family Planning. I also tried a device called OvaCue, but that company is no longer around. This is what I found:

1. Fertile Focus

What It Is: The Fertile Focus uses a microscope to track the changes in the saliva that correspond with changes in fertility. The website explains the FertileFocus microscope:

“Designed by leading fertility expert, Dr. Amos Grunebaum, ObGyn, Fertile-Focus is the affordable high-quality saliva-based fertility test (or personal ovulation microscope) that predicts ovulation with 98% accuracy – up to 72 hours in advance.

Fertile-Focus allows women to identify their most fertile days by testing and viewing the visual changes that take place in saliva throughout the monthly cycle. Just prior to ovulation, women experience an “estrogen surge,” and a distinct fern-like pattern becomes visible in saliva due to the hormonal changes. Fertile-Focus provides the highest quality, powerful 50x magnification lens for easily identifying these crystal “ferning” patterns.”

How I Used It: The Fertile Focus predicts ovulation several days in advance based on the patterns in the saliva. Since I was using the OvaCue while nursing a baby and creating “cycles” for it to track, I used the Fertile Focus as a backup method to show ovulation if the OvaCue missed it. All that is required is to place a small amount of saliva on the fertile focus each morning (before eating or drinking), let it dry and then look at it with the microscope.

The Fertile Focus showed the ferning pattern in my saliva at the same time that my charting showed a rise in fertility and the same time that the OvaCue predicted ovulation. It only gave me about 3 days advance notice, compared to the 7 day notice with OvaCue but it was fascinating to see the change in my saliva.

I liked how portable and easy to use the Fertile Focus was, but prefer the extra data with the OvaCue. The Fertile Focus is also the least expensive of the methods I tried. Though it didn’t provide as much advance notice of ovulation, it did predict it accurately.

2. iBasal Thermometer

What It Is: The iBasal Thermometer is a device that relies on the Basal Body Temperature (BBT) method for tracking fertility and pinpointing ovulation. The iBasal has a built in alarm clock to remind you to take your temperature each morning and it measures temperature to 1/100th of a degree. I’ve charted with the BBT method before but the iBasal charts for you to make the process easier.

The website explains:

Basal body temperature (BBT) charting is a tried and true method for determining precisely when during your menstrual cycle you ovulate. Your basal body temperature is the temperature at which your body rests, which tends to be a bit lower than your “normal” temperature, usually 97 point something degrees F versus 98.6 degrees F. By measuring your BBT each morning (after a full night’s sleep) throughout your cycle you can detect the natural and subtle rise in your basal body temperature that occurs just after ovulation. This post-ovulatory shift in BBT is caused by increased production of the hormone progesterone, sometimes referred to as the “warming hormone.”

How I Used It: I kept the iBasal by my bed and took my temperature with it each morning. While I was nursing and didn’t have a cycle, it showed slight variations in my temperature, but not enough to indicate a shift in fertility. Also, since I was working on improving my thyroid hormone levels during this time, it registered a few false ovulations, though most women (even while nursing) wouldn’t have this variable to deal with.

It did confirm that ovulation had happened after (which corresponded with the other methods I was using) but it didn’t give advance notice.

3. Ovulation Sticks

What It Is: Ovulation sticks use urine to identify a rise in LH (Leutenizing Hormone) that occurs 12-48 hours before ovulation. They are very accurate but don’t give much advance notice of ovulation.

How I Used Them: I use these mainly to confirm what the fertility monitors were saying and confirm that ovulation did occur. They can be pricey and must be bought each month, so they aren’t the best option but they do give an extra way to confirm that ovulation has occurred and that LH levels have dropped. I won’t use these long term but they were useful as an extra way to verify the data from the other machines.

What I Use Now

After comparing all four methods side by side for six months, the Fertile Focus is my top option. The device I use the most often is no longer being made, but Fertile Focus is a good alternative. Another option to try is the Kegg fertility monitor which relies on cervical mucus so it’s more accurate.

There is also a great community at Fairhaven Health of women using these different methods and they have forums where you can ask questions and get advice.

As I’m trying to temporarily avoid pregnancy, I’m using these methods to pinpoint my fertile window so I can avoid getting pregnant, but the same technology is excellent at helping pinpoint ovulation to achieve pregnancy.

With this existing technology and as more research and innovation happens, fertility monitors provide an alternative to hormonal contraceptives and also allow women to know and understand their bodies and possibly identify hormonal problems.

This article was medically reviewed by Dr. Anna Cabeca, a gynecologist and obstetrician and a menopause and sexual health expert. As always, this is not personal medical advice and we recommend that you talk with your doctor.

Have you ever used a fertility monitor or natural family planning method? Please share what worked for you below!

How to Use Fertility Monitors to Achieve or Avoid Pregnancy Without Hormones

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About Katie Wells

Katie Wells, CTNC, MCHC, Founder of Wellness Mama and Co-founder of Wellnesse, has a background in research, journalism, and nutrition. As a mom of six, she turned to research and took health into her own hands to find answers to her health problems. WellnessMama.com is the culmination of her thousands of hours of research and all posts are medically reviewed and verified by the Wellness Mama research team. Katie is also the author of the bestselling books The Wellness Mama Cookbook and The Wellness Mama 5-Step Lifestyle Detox.

Comments

231 responses to “How to Use Fertility Monitors to Space or Avoid Pregnancy”

  1. Becky Avatar

    We are in the same boat (4 babies in 4 years) of wanting to delay pregnancy for some time. I’m wondering how OvaCue worked during the transition from nursing infertility to regaining your cycle. Our youngest is currently 10 months old and still nursing quiet a bit, but there is very likely a end in sight to “extended infertility”. From the OvaCue website it looked like it didn’t work unless you have started your cycle.

    1. Katie - Wellness Mama Avatar

      I used it while nursing before my cycle returned (and had my first cycle in 8 years). It isn’t tested for use while nursing, but there are some guidelines that help (like looking for a certain pattern of oral readings to indicate a shift to fertility) and that low vaginal levels mean higher fertility, and higher vaginal levels typically mean lower fertility. I just watched my patterns and re-set the machine every 29 days to mimic my cycle. I also really paid attention to the patterns in case the machine didn’t catch an oral or vaginal change.

  2. Carleen Avatar

    I was on the pill for 8 years straight and have been off of it for almost 11 months. My cycle is STILL all messed up (not regular, and I have ovarian cysts every other month, which I didn’t have much of before I was on the pill). I was very regular before being on the pill, so it’s frustrating. I also developed hypothyroidism around the same time I started taking the pill, and I wasn’t aware of how that can affect tracking fertility, so thanks for that info! We’re going to try to start a family in a few months but I worry about getting my body back to ‘normal’ first. What are the best fertility tracking methods for those with an irregular cycle? I’m in school for nutritional therapy, so I know there are things I should try with foods and herbs in order to get my cycle more regular.

    1. Katie - Wellness Mama Avatar

      The ovacue worked for me even with nursing and no cycle… I just made sure to pay attention to the patterns myself and not just depend on the machine to tell me when ovulation would happen.

  3. chantel Avatar

    Thanks! This is great. I am 19 weeks pregnant with my first. It was a surprise! I had been charting my cycle on an ap on my phone but my “fertile window” was off by 2 days and alas…I am pregnant. I will be looking into using something more accurate/effective after this baby is born. I can’t recall if there’s been talk in this blog about predicting gender based on conception date. But based on that theory, I was suspecting a girl. Sure enough, an ultrasound last week confirmed my suspicions. (And I knew sooner than 20 weeks because I had to see a high-risk specialist due to having Type 1 diabetes. I’m pretty confident in the accuracy of his fancy ultrasound equipment.)

  4. Johanna Avatar

    Thanks for this timely post!! I just had my second baby this month but both my kids came unexpectedly at 30 weeks. I want to find a natural way to avoid pregnancy for the time being but with my history of PCOS, and thyroid issues plus pumping for a preemie (as opposed to nursing from the breast) I can’t fully expect nursing to keep me from getting pregnant. (My last preemie was able to nurse for two years once he came home and I had no cycles for those two years. I’m hoping this preemie puts nursing together too.) I will look into the OvaCue. Sounds like it should work for me.

  5. Amanda Avatar

    Thank you for this comprehensive and detailed comparison. I got off the pill a few months ago due to a glitch in my health insurance and even though I take a very lose-dose pill, the difference I felt in my mind and body without the hormones was amazing. I am not ready to get pregnant but am ready to be off the pill, this was the perfect write up to come across! Thanks again.

  6. Morgan Avatar

    This is some great info! I was on the pill as a teen and young adult and always had a crazy cycle and heavy but I finally decided to stop taking it several years ago and it was no longer heavy and you could’ve set a clock by it! We used nfp to delay pregnamcy and it worked great for us we even got pregnant the first month we tried because I was sure when I was ovulating. Breastfeeding seems to be doing it for us for now (13 mo) although I know this isn’t the case for everyone. We are ready for number two but I don’t think I’m fertile yet, maybe one of the methods can tell me?

  7. Goldi Avatar

    Boooooo I searched all over, iBasal is “currently out of stock?!” I need to think long and hard about dropping a couple hundred on OvaCue…..

  8. Maria Avatar

    I just want to make sure I understood this right… I really want to use a natural way to prevent pregnancy… So are you saying that the Ovacue could help with that while still breast feeding? I love all the information you share. your website has moved our family to Living Naturally… Thank you 🙂

    1. Katie - Wellness Mama Avatar

      Yes. It worked for me and I finally had my first cycle in 8 years (I had conceived my kids back to back). I’m working on a tutorial post on how I used it while nursing

      1. Julie Avatar

        Hi Katie,

        I really want to do NFP, but am postpartum and have a thyroid problem and am breastfeeding. My daughter is 9 months old and my cycle has been super irregular. I have a LadyComp, but haven’t been able to use it since it relies on past trends and I don’t have trends. Would the OvaCue be able to predict my ovulation? I want to heal my thyroid before having another baby. TIA

      2. Molly Avatar

        I am nursing my 5th baby in eight years and I too have recently been diagnosed with a thyroid problem and autoimmune disease, so the temperature method doesn’t work for me and we have serious reason to avoid. I have read the OvaCue website but it isn’t clear how you use this method to avoid pregnancy. I would LOVE a tutorial on how you use this! Thanks!

      3. Karen Avatar

        Katie! Did you ever finish this tutorial you talk about?? I am on here currently trying to figure out how to use and interpret the OvaCue at 4 months postpartum, I’ve been having really light spotting for a few days ever 10-18 days and don’t know what the heck is going on with my fertility…would love to hear the specifics of exactly how you used the OvaCue before getting your cycles back!

        Thanks so much!

      4. Christy Avatar
        Christy

        Very interested in this article. Great information!! Did you ever create the tutorial post you spoke of here? I believe that it would be very helpful as I am a breastfeeding mother as well and would like to start using the Ovacue.

      5. Erica Avatar

        Hey! I am wondering if you ever did that follow up tutorial post on how you used the ovacue while nursing? I am 11 weeks our from having my baby and would love to use it to avoid pregnancy. I plan on nursing as long as I can and I don’t tend to get a cycle until about 9 mos or so. I would really like to use this to prevent pregnancy. Thanks!

        Erica

      6. Sophia Avatar

        Hi,

        Has the video been posted yet about using OvaCue while nursing?

        Thanks,

      7. Sara Avatar

        Katie, do you have a tutorial post on how to use while breastfeeding? I’m 36 weeks pregnant and after a very complicated pregnancy hubby and I are looking to delay conception for a few years. We had previously used LadyComp very successfully, but I plan to breastfeed and it seems like BBT isn’t very reliable while breastfeeding. Could you direct me to your tutorial??

      8. Melody Montague Avatar
        Melody Montague

        Do you have the tutorial post up yet? I just bought one but I’m not sure how to use it while nursing.

    2. Svetlana Avatar

      I am using Lady-Comp monitor over five years and I love it. I says when I have safe days to have sex by showing green light. I have to take my basal temperature every morning in my mouth. I planned my second child exactly got pregnant in first month I tried. When I had red days (ovulation), I used condoms or obstained from sex. ovulation lasts only several days, and it is not big deal for me and my husband.

  9. Ashlee Avatar

    This is really interesting! I refuse to use birth control after being hospitalized TWICE from Mirena IUD. Woo, what a nightmare. I do use condoms as a form of birth control, but you know… things happen in the moment and it’s always nice to have a second opinion (in this case, another form of birth control). I think I may have to save up and invest in this.

  10. Annie Avatar

    Great article! Have you tried the clear blue monitor? I’m trying to figure out which to get to use for NFP and haven’t found much comparing the two.
    Thanks!

      1. Malori Avatar

        My husband and I practice NFP as well (currently avoiding pregnancy), and I use the ClearBlue fertility monitor. I also check my cervical mucus and take my BBT, but I am not as consistent with taking my temp as I should be. Usually my fertility signs line up, but lately I’ve had several months where the monitor didn’t show an LH surge, only elevated estrogen. Also, buying the fertility sticks every 2-3 months is starting to get pricey and annoying (we’ve been married almost 1 year, and I’d been practicing tracking my fertility for almost 2 years before that). I’m really interested in trying the OvaCue and also the ferning device! They sound more accurate and cost-effective in the long run. I’m wondering if I have fertility issues going on though, esp. with the ClearBlue not showing LH surges….sometimes we cut it a little too close (it’s even happened on the day of ovulation), but I’ve never gotten pregnant. My period has also gotten very light (though it’s always on schedule), and I get anxious and depressed around (what should be) ovulation. (Which works out for abstaining, because I’m not in the mood anyway lol….but it doesn’t seem normal.) I feel great during when most women have PMS! Maybe using the OvaCue would help me figure things out. Sorry if this is TMI…..but wondering if you might have any insight. 🙂

        1. Michelle Avatar

          Consider trying 5HT supplement 100mg by mouth twice a day. It helps your body produce serotonin. It has balanced my moods out very well. I bought it at Costco.

    1. Kristin S Avatar
      Kristin S

      I have used Ovacue for 18 months and Clearblue for 12 months NFP purposes. I like Ovacue better overall. The reason I have both is I have accidently broken my Ovacue sensors – oral twice and vaginal once (you have to be gentle, don’t pull on with the cords!) Fairhaven Health replaced them under warranty but for a couple days I’d be unable to use the monitor, so I got the Clearblue as backup and out of curiosity. Temping would be cheaper but because of my darling kids, I don’t have a regular enough waking schedule to take my basal temperature accurately (although I hear the LadyComp adjusts for that, I am not convinced enough to shell out that kind of money!). Anyway– Both monitors agree on my day of ovulation, except that I commonly ovulate on the first Peak Day that Clearblue gives me, not the second. Correspondingly, I have found the Ovacue will usually let me know one day earlier than the Clearblue that I’ve entered my fertile window, and I love that you can confirm ovulation has occurred using the vaginal sensor– typically I am able to determine I’m “safe” sooner with Ovacue than waiting the recommended time that Marquette method prescribes. I graph the data myself, because I am also breastfeeding and I noticed that in my first 6 months of resumed menstrual cycles I was regularly getting multiple cue peaks and incidences of what Fairhaven Health has termed “secondary fertility,” or multiple *attempts* at ovulation before it is successful. I really loved learning about all that and having information about what my hormones were doing, and using Katie’s dietary & supplement advice I have rebalanced to where I can just trust Ovacue rather than using both monitors and graphing… but I’m a nerd so I’ll probably continue anyway. Lastly I will say that when I’ve had questions, the Ovacue folks provide FAR better and MUCH faster customer service than the Clearblue folks.

  11. Tracey Avatar

    Thank you for doing this research. I do not like taking birth control pills as I am always afraid of missing them and I have a high aversion to “popping pills”. My question is would the OvaCue work on someone who is irregular? My fertility window is different every month.

      1. Maria Avatar

        Thank you for this information! Have you ever used Clearblue fertility monitor? I was researching it when I found your review here. I have heard of people using it during breastfeeding but was wondering how it works. Couldn’t find any info. I am imagining that you reset it each month you did with the ovacue?

    1. Tessa Avatar

      I’ve been reading about Daysy and its not on your list do you have any input on it by chance or any possibility of you doing a test and review on it as well?

  12. Stacy Avatar

    Thank you so much for posting this. I’m currently pregnant and I’ve been looking in to alternatives to birth control pills since I went off them to try to get pregnant. I’ve always been afraid to try anything else for fear of it not being accurate enough to prevent pregnancy. I’ve read about both the LadyComp and OvaCue and I’ve been wondering which is more accurate. It makes me nervous to use these methods while nursing because ovulation is so uncertain. It’s great to read a review from someone who used it while nursing.

    1. Eilise Avatar

      Mommypotamus, how is the OvaCue working out for you? I am nursing and haven’t gotten my cycle back yet and am trying to decide between clear blue fertility monitor and ovucue.
      Thanks in advance for any information you can share!

      1. Jennifer Avatar

        Did you ever get any information in reply to this? I am breastfeeding and would like to purchase Ovacue IF it will work.

  13. Jenni Avatar

    Katie I am very worried now, I’m only 21 and I have been taking oral contraceptives for about 2 years, and never been pregnant. I know now that I should never have started but every girl I knew was taking them and it seemed like the only option. (and I never would have started if I knew it the fertilized egg could be prevented form implanting)
    I don’t know what to do, my husband and I have been relying on BC because we can’t afford to have kids right now but we do want to have kids in a few years. Is there anything I can do to decrease the risk of cancer?

    1. Jan Avatar

      Jenni,

      I am 46 and very healthy, with mostly regular, fertile cycles. I have 4 healthy children (17, 14, 8, 4) and my generation was told oral contraceptives were basically miracle pills–alleged cures for acne, cramps, heavy bleeding, protection from uterine cancer, etc. We were NOT told they are abortifacients. I was on them for probably 4 years then off then on again another 1-2, stopping 6 months before I knew we wanted to ttc. I have been off them since 1/1996). I am careful about diet and exercise. You will be fine! :-). I had no problems conceiving at 40 1/2, 6 months after my husband had had a vas. reversal after 2 years. and was finally convinced we were being called to have another child. What a blessing for you to know so much (and to care!) as a young adult.

  14. Aloka Avatar

    Hi Katie,
    I am a hige fan of your blog and your work and have been for awhile.
    I want to start planning my 2nd child this year.
    I’ve been paleo for 4 years and have given birth and am nursing an 18 month old and I fear I may Have messed up somewhere along this past year.
    I am feeling awful.
    My lean muscle has disappeared, my sprinting and fitness over all has reduced, my metabolism is sluggish, my migraines are back and I have gained so much weight that I look like my pre primal self.
    I was doing fabulous till about 6 months ago (one year postpartum).
    My toddler started drinking less breast milk and my menstruation returned after a 15 month break.
    So either it’s my nutritional profile or hormonal profile that has gone totally out of gear with these changes. Honestly yes I have slacked off a little over the past year or so but nothing that warrants this huge a backlash.
    I’ve been reading about estrogen dominance of low progesterone with extended breastfeeding. There seems to be a link there.
    I don’t understand though, how something so natural as breastfeeding a toddler could make me such a mess? It doesn’t add up.
    Are these changes temporary? Is this a modern lifestyle thing? Have i really slacked off that much? Should I begin supplementing big time (calcium/ folate/ magnesium?)
    I wonder if you’ve had any experience with this since you have nursed and been pregnant for a long time these past few years.
    Did you face hormonal upheaval or is it my nutritional profile. Can’t figure it out. Also I always practiced natural contraception and listened to my body knew when I was ovulating etc, now I just can’t tell!

    1. Lily Avatar

      Hi Aloka! I’m in a similar situation to you! My daughter is nearly 2.5 and we are still breastfeeding and eat a paleo diet. My period returned when she was around a year and I had a feeling that something was not quite right. It took quite awhile for me to finally get to a naturopath, but she tested my progesterone levels, thyroid, vitamin d and vitamin b. The thyroid was OK but my progestorone was extremely low. Same for the B and D. She wrote a prescription for bioidentical progesterone and I’ve been taking it for a few months now and periodically checking in with her. I also take Vitex, magnesium, cod liver oil, B vitamins and evening primrose oil. I highly recommend finding a naturopath or an open-minded doctor to test your hormone levels and thyroid so that you can go from there rather than guess. It may be preferable to address what may be going in in your body before going for the pregnancy ride. I also totally agree with Katie about carbs – I went too low carb with paleo in the beginning (sort of by accident) and do better eating plenty of sweet and regular potatoes, fruits, etc. There’s tons of great info on this site. Katie does a service to us all to share her wisdom!

      1. Aloka Avatar

        Hi lily. Thanks for sharing your story. I also suspect its progesterone but i went to a couple of doctors to ask tog et my hormones checked but they just said check your thyroid and looked blank when i spoke about progesterone – estrogen imbalance.
        I don’t think i am too low carb I eat plenty of fruits and vegetables.
        thanks though I will make sure i get all the tests done and seems like progesterone cream will help.
        thanks Katie and Lily

        1. Andy Avatar

          Hi Aloka.

          we are in the boat!
          I was wondering if you got the progesterone cream-and how you feel. I just ordered it myself

  15. Amy Avatar

    Does it say anything about using the vaginal testing after intercourse? I’m wondering if the change in chemicals that naturally happen would mess with the accuracy.
    Also is this something you order on line or do they carry it at a medical supply? Insurance may pay for it if it’s at a med supply… Just a thought

    1. Kayla Avatar

      Hey did you ever figure out if this is available via med supply? I looked on a few websites that carry them but was unable to find any fertility monitors to be covered. If you did find it could you send me the website link? Thanks!

  16. Ashley Avatar

    In my early 20’s I found the book ‘Taking Charge of Your Fertility,’ and it literally changed my life. I finally learned exactly what my body was doing and how to ‘read’ it. Conception control without a prescription was empowering and liberating! My hubby and I not only managed to avoid pregnancy for, TEN years, but concieved on our first attempt, then avoided pregnancy for another nearly 4 years, and once again: conceived on our first try. In fact, I suspected I was pregnant before the tests could tell, based on what my body was doing. AMAZING. I don’t chart or take temps, but keep track of physical signs (mostly ‘egg white’). I charted for about 6 months at the begninning, but once I figured it out, it was simple. A barrier method used a few days a month, and no Rx needed.

    1. Heidi Avatar

      Yes, Fertility Awareness worked wonders for me too! I was on the Pill for years for endometriosis but got to the point where I just couldn’t stand being so out of touch with my body any more. When I met my husband I was motivated to find a decent solution….

      I charted faithfully for a year and was very confident that I knew what my body’s patterns were.

      After that, I went ‘solo’ and simply monitored mucus and cervical behaviour.

      We were successfully unpregnant for several years. Then on our first try, we were pregnant at age 39, and now have a beautiful healthy 4 year old. Then again, we were successfully unpregnant for 3 years before deciding to go for it again. We conceived immediately, but that pregnancy did not stick. We waited a few months and tried again — again, immediate pregnancy. However, that one didn’t work either and I ended up having to have a D&E. Incredibly, we conceived again during the glory days of late summer and are expecting another lovely little fella soon. I am almost 44. My OB just shakes his head and says he can’t believe it…. 🙂

      1. Chelsea Avatar

        Heidi,

        That is amazing! Thank you for sharing your story 😀

        24 years ago my mother became pregnant with me at the age of 42 after having 2 kids 22 years earlier and 1 other 2 years earlier. I am part of her story now and am so grateful for my life and for my mother. Blessings to you and your family!

    2. Jay Avatar

      In Australia we call TCOYF the ‘Billings Ovulation Method’ named after the doctors that developed it. I learnt it from their book 23 years ago and also have 100% successfully conceived 3 children and prevented pregnancy …I’m now 48 and in a new relationship and am out of touch with my fertility since the past few years as I didn’t need to track when my past relationship broke up. Things have changed. I don’t seem to be having fertile mucous anymore although I’m still having menstrual cycles. The last thing I want to do is take contraceptives or have my tubes tied. I’m not really gunning for a pregnancy either! Probably time to read the book again! I’m curious to try one of the methods in this blog post as well to see if I’m actually ovulating.

  17. Jenee Avatar

    I bought the FertileFocus. I had just stopped my birth control, and started using it about 4-5 days after my last menstrual cycle. Every other day it seemed to “ferning.” I then bought some ovulation strips. They arrived the date I should have been ovulating and sure enough I was! Because I was using these as a birth control, I spent the next two weeks waiting and worrying. I am not sure if the issue with the FertileFocus was that my estrogen levels, which is tests, were unstable due to the stop of the BC, but my body seemed to still be exactly on cycle. I am giving it the benefit of the doubt that possibly my estrogen was off, but I still wouldn’t recommend it for anyone using it as BC or planning to conceive as it does not seem to be as effective as using an urine ovulation predictor.

  18. Emily Avatar

    This is useful i wish i have read it before . I’m 23 and went,on,the pill for ~3 years due to extremely painful periods. Out of the blue I stopped taking them because I just thought they couldn’t be good for me. My,period has stabalized and,now i juice everyday and try to be healthier. Your site gives me great tips

  19. Cara Avatar

    Have you heard of the LadyComp? It would be worth looking into and adding to your list.

      1. Lea Avatar

        Hi. I just had a miscarriage so haven’t had a period yet. Does the ova cue work if you don’t have a period? I have conceived 3 of my 6 kids before my period had returned. Love all the info, you’re my go to site I tell everyone about.

    1. Mary Clare Avatar
      Mary Clare

      I was just going to say, I love the lady comp. It’s pricey but the easiest and reliable.

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